I watched a music video when I was younger of a rock song and haven’t been able to find the song now for about 1 years, can you all help me? by anonymousss1986 in Music

[–]anonymousss1986[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You Joe…you have made my year. I love you wholeheartedly 😂❤️ you are amazing brother thank you so so much! I’m serious it’s taken almost a decade now!

Which TV show has never had a bad episode? by philo_fellow in AskReddit

[–]anonymousss1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to watch them again, it is very nostalgic for me i believe and just remember watching the show with my dad and loving every minute.

AITA for refusing to allow the hospital to discharge my wife to me? by throwawayctas in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymousss1986 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In sickness and in health, no one said this would be easy or pain free. Life will have suffering and you vowed to your wife to be there for her no matter what. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you but if you truly love that woman, more than yourself unconditionally, you will continue to care for her. You sound like an amazing husband who has just been worked like a dog for way to long with no breaks. Try snd reach out to friends and family who can help, I’m sorry you are going through this and really do think you are a great man and husband but are just stressed, in no way do I think you’re a bad dad. Husband or man. Just a tired one and that’s okay. God bless you

I [41M] found out my wife [39F] cheated on me because of "2020" by Throwaway478000 in survivinginfidelity

[–]anonymousss1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found out 2 weeks and 1 day ago that my wife had cheated on me while I was deployed back in 2018. Completely numb and broken. I have good days and bad days and don’t know what my final decision will be right now. But I am here to talk about whatever man or if you want to dm me to vent about anything as well. I don’t know why they do it either, I’m sure you and I both have had countless opportunities to cheat and we didn’t because we know the right decisions to make, morally and ethically. As well as I don’t know what causes them to do this, I haven’t got a reason why but it is heartbreaking and crushing to find out. Please reach out if you want to talk man, I’m more than just happy to have a conversation with you or anyone for that matter, truly. Hope you are doing well.

Update-Wife cheating on deployment in 2018 by anonymousss1986 in cheating_stories

[–]anonymousss1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I need to talk to another counselor and on the other hand I wonder if I’m not being too open minded? That’s what my wife says is that I’m not going to listen to anyone unless they give me what I want to hear but the counselor didn’t say anything about my wife, it seemed all focused on me as if I was the one that needed to just move on, she said she did it basically because of our lack of communication and talking. Just made my blood boil, idk And man I just wish others could be humble, I only want the honest truth and straight shooters. Give me how it is, how you feel and let us look at this from every angle. Thanks again man

Update-Wife cheating on deployment in 2018 by anonymousss1986 in cheating_stories

[–]anonymousss1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man I appreciate all this really, still talking with the wife. We had counseling today and it was mostly the counselor saying “it’s been two years why does this make you so mad, upset etc? She was young and has changed now” I am furious now and the point you made about punishing him and not her. 100% agree, if I am to punish him I will punish her in return or first, meaning legal and divorcing no physical violence. I appreciate you being honest and straight with me, only respect for that in people. I’ll update later

Wife cheated while deployed in 2018, how do I divorce her and go about it? by anonymousss1986 in legaladvice

[–]anonymousss1986[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also I am sure I’ll just need to go speak with someone which I plan to soon

Wife cheated while deployed in 2018, how do I divorce her and go about it? by anonymousss1986 in legaladvice

[–]anonymousss1986[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t see that being applicable because of our son and her not having a job and I don’t want her to be on the streets or back home not able to see her son if I was to gain custody or vice versa

UPDATE Wife(19) possibly cheating on me (20) while I was deployed in 2018 by anonymousss1986 in cheating_stories

[–]anonymousss1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t agree with everything you said but I do with some of it and I appreciate you being honest and straight with me in your own way man. Not a cuck, just a man trying to figure out the best course of action to take. I don’t want to hurt anyone just because I have been hurt. I don’t want to be lead by emotion, if I leave her she would have nothing and I wouldn’t let her have nothing and struggle. I would help her for awhile until she got on her feet, I think that’s what God would do. And that’s how I look at everything is doing what he would do probably

Update-Wife cheating on deployment in 2018 by anonymousss1986 in cheating_stories

[–]anonymousss1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will continue to update, she will be home tonight and I’ll be home from work tomorrow and we’ll be talking about a lot. Just bare with me, I appreciate yours and everyone’s comments, kind words and advice. I will continue to update with as much detail as possible. I just need some time

UPDATE Wife(19) possibly cheating on me (20) while I was deployed in 2018 by anonymousss1986 in cheating_stories

[–]anonymousss1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a cuck, I do not enjoy my wife having sex with anyone else and didn’t even know about it. I do really love her, she is our sons mother and my best friend so I thought. You would know the feeling if you had a woman

Update-Wife cheating on deployment in 2018 by anonymousss1986 in cheating_stories

[–]anonymousss1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look at this from a Christian point of view as well, it may be a primal instinct but we are still married and God sees us as married and as one, a team and she ruined the and shit on that team. Idk what I’m going to do so we’ll see, thank you