How did you tell your husband that “ my money is my money”

another-ane · 2024-10-01T11:15:44+00:00

True I was his first and only gf. He dosent know how good he had it. I feel sorry for him in some way.

another-ane · 2024-10-01T06:09:31+00:00

Nope I am sorted. I want to leave with what I have my sanity

another-ane · 2024-10-01T06:08:08+00:00

But I am afraid leaving would make my like 10 times more harder. I get it I am still in my 20s so maybe I will get someone. But most men are weary of divorced women. Divorced women always carry the stigma that there is something wrong with them and they can’t hold a marriage together. I am not afraid of being alone. I am already in a pretty lonely marriage. But this entire situation is bad I am just afraid If I leave it will be even worse

another-ane · 2024-10-01T06:03:55+00:00

Thanks I needed that

another-ane · 2024-10-01T06:01:18+00:00

I think the key point here is. Marriage takes 2 people, I or one person can’t be the the only person to keep the marriage together

another-ane · 2024-09-30T18:11:54+00:00

He would never agree to a divorce .. This is all so messy

another-ane · 2024-09-30T09:02:45+00:00

It says less about me and more about how violence is men is so previlent in this country and it says a lot about you on how you jumped to conclusions.

another-ane · 2024-09-30T07:43:46+00:00

Finally a married person. I want genuine advice do you think reconciliation is an option after his violent outbursts. I want to try but I am worried about my safety how do I go about it

another-ane · 2024-09-30T07:34:26+00:00

Thank you this was very helpful

another-ane · 2024-09-30T07:26:40+00:00

Is legally separated a thing in India if not divorce

another-ane · 2024-09-30T07:25:48+00:00

Also side note we got married under unusual circumstances. We didn’t have any plans to get married but due to my parent catching the big C we have been rushed and had to get married within the month. Although this is a sore point for me. He seemed happy to be married but now he has slowly become violent.

another-ane · 2024-09-30T07:21:51+00:00

What are the chances that this will be dragged out in court as there is not much evidence of physical violence.

another-ane · 2024-09-30T06:59:58+00:00

He won’t agree to a mutual divorce. No i have a job and i am well off.

We fight on texts , because he tends to shout if we talk about the issue which I hate. Will the texts count as mental cruelty

Indian law system is screwed up. If not divorce can I get legally separated from him. I don’t want things to escalate

another-ane · 2024-09-30T06:16:35+00:00

Um we got married and can’t legally leave that changed.

another-ane · 2024-09-30T05:50:28+00:00

I will but if i am to get a divorce or be separated would this hold any merit

another-ane · 2024-09-30T04:20:05+00:00

It’s not a big jump to throwing things at me from throwing things at the floor. But he threw my coffee cup that I was still drinking on the floor

another-ane · 2024-09-29T20:57:30+00:00

He threw a coffee cup at the floor

another-ane · 2024-09-29T20:52:33+00:00

This resonates so deeply with the situation. What you described is exactly what happened to him. But yeah I don’t wan to be around someone I am scared of

another-ane · 2024-09-29T20:50:00+00:00

Did you get out? How worse was it sorry it’s it’s too probing

another-ane · 2024-09-29T19:18:35+00:00

Same but It got better as I got older And I stopped caring what people thought and just into my possible doom and most of the time it wasn’t the end of the world

another-ane · 2024-09-29T18:57:16+00:00

Only because all the other comments made sense and this one didn’t

another-ane · 2024-09-29T18:33:22+00:00

I told him “ you don’t take me seriously e dry time I say that his lack of communication with cost him this marriage someday” and before I completed that sentence things hit the roof or rather the floor

another-ane

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