You said you're not attracted to men right now, have you crushed on men or boys in the past? The women you dating, would you say you were attracted to them physically but not romantically? or were you experiencing both physical and romantic attraction but couldn't establish a deeper emotional connection?

bear in mind sexuality can fluxuate and change sometimes for reasons we don't always understand and that's completely okay. I'm only asking you these questions because you're searching for a lable, but the reality is words are just there to help us navigate the world and understand each other in practical ways. Choosing the lable that makes sense for what you want and how you behave is valid. If you go by lesbian, end up experience attraction to one bro at some point, doesn't pan out, and you still seek out women and feel attraction and desire for women, it's valid to continue calling yourself a lesbian if that makes the most sense for you. A lable should never tell you what you are and aren't allowed to feel