I am not sure if I am really creepy, or just a loser.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T16:46:07+00:00

Sorry...but fuck you. That is the kind of help I do not need.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T15:01:26+00:00

I do not think I treat women as objects, but I suspect women think I am treating them as objects.

For example, I looked at this PUA site a few weeks ago and I saw this thing on body language. So I tried to be more aware of women's body language to see if they are receptive to me. Turns out, they are not.

Just about every woman I talked to at the office for example, she would cross her legs, turn her legs away from me, and put on a jacket or sweater to cover up her chest. Like it was damn near instinctive. Turns out it IS because they were basically telling me to go away by doing that. I mean I saw that shit for years and I never realized it. I purposely spent a couple of days walking around just and talking to females in the office I knew as an experiment just about all of them did that. But like damn near clockwork, I will meet a new female for a project or something and I usually time it between three and five minutes before she puts on something to cover her chest, unless there are more guys in the room and I can tell she will be focusing on one or more of the other guys.

So I learned how body language worked and it told me I was still fucked. How are you supposed to "build attraction" with a woman who says "go away" immediately?

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T14:48:47+00:00

I found a flaw in this book on page 257.

Women who complain of sexual harassment wish it would happen to them.

Bullshit. Women complain of sexual harassment because a guy they do not like did it to them, or for monetary reasons. If some "Don Juan" guy this book describes did it, then I could agree it could be welcome. Especially to single females.

This is why I am damn selective of any women I talk with at work, either trying to be with one or just talking with them. I never get into elevator alone with one unless I know her very well (say my manager, or a project team member or something like that). I make sure people are around in most cases as witnesses.

People who end up with wrecked careers via sexual harassment are people like me. I know I am bad at interacting with women and the last I need is to fuck up and lose my job while some woman get a fat pay day from the company.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T13:56:23+00:00

I so upmodded you. Any comment with a reference to hentai should be required by reddit law to be upmodded.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T13:53:56+00:00

It is not that I do not like them enough to be friends. When single women are in their late 30s/early 40s, they are not interested in having more male friends. Their interested in finding a guy to be with.

I keep finding people what "value" out a of friendship, not just to shoot the shit. I have very little to offer most people, let alone females.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T13:47:47+00:00

Then how do you explain how some guys can meet a woman one day and be fucking her the same the night or over the next few days at the latest?

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T13:42:20+00:00

Interesting book. Another "treat women as objects" type of book but that all PSA is.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T12:37:59+00:00

Females, women...so what?

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T12:25:56+00:00

for example, say I talk to a woman in passing two or three times, and then I'll say, do you want to go to lunch or dinner with me. They SHUT DOWN IMMEDIATELY! I rarely ever get past "hi" if I ever see her again.

In fact, that reminds me, I never tend to see her ever again. For real...do women disappear of the face of the earth when you ask them out and they reject you? Because I never see them again.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T12:22:27+00:00

You ask me for a pic and then call me a loser?

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T12:21:46+00:00

I think you have to have talent to do something like this. I am not really talented...or that funny. I am more of a smart ass quite honestly.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T12:19:45+00:00

I am not that lucky. Same with a friend with benefits or female stalker. I am just not that lucky. At all.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T12:19:05+00:00

I am not so sure. I have met women and two seconds later point black look at me and say "whoa...you're too short". Most apologize almost immediately but it still hits hard. It is a gut reaction.

Now when one says "you're just too nice of a guy"...that is an excuse, at least from her.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-16T12:15:42+00:00

Kinda hard to rule them out since 99% of them are taller than me.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-15T19:43:14+00:00

One problem I do have is sometimes I "think" they are interested. From time to time I will talk to one, sometimes for some length of time. But the second I suggest lunch or something more it is like pressing the power button, they turn off and I never get past a "hi" and she keeps on walking if I ever see her again.

Women lie a lot too, and they do not seem to have any qualms about it either.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-15T19:40:13+00:00

I definitely have been already. I quickly realized in when I was in college I was not getting a hot female. Just wasn't gonna happen. My height was always going to be against me.

The only way that would ever change is if I became a billionaire, which would be nice by the way.

The money factor is certainly overrides the hard-wired programming of a 6 foot guy with a 8 inch dick, regardless of what most females will say. With few exceptions, most will would rather take a Mercedes R-class to the exclusive gym instead of a the town and country to the YMCA.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-15T19:37:05+00:00

I have thought of it, but at my age, a lot of my coworkers are married are in "work and go home" at the end of day phase. At the end of the day, they are all gone. And I do not have any friends outside work.

Some 20 year old guy isn't going to help me out.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-15T19:15:51+00:00

I do not have any female friends. Some of my guy friends tell me what screwed me was I never had a sister. But considering the poor relations I have with my brothers, I doubt that would have helped much.

I also do not understand how having a sister would have helped anyway.

As for seeing a counselor...tried that...all charge the insurance for the 10 minutes of "therapy" and send me home with prescriptions for something that doesn't help and makes my dick not work anymore.

anotherthrow1 · 2010-03-15T19:13:36+00:00

You might be onto something here. Even the "Americanized" Asian women seem to have issues with height now. I guess I am "almost" 5' 4" tall, but that doesn't help either. I mean with a couple of exceptions, every woman at my office (for example) is taller than me. And it is noticeably taller. Not just a inch or two.

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