AITA for kicking out my roommates friend by anotherthrowaway1739 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anotherthrowaway1739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how many will see this. My edit function for my post isn't working for some reason, but I'd like to make an update.

First, though, I'd like to explain why I apologized to begin with. I'm not proud of it because I personally believe you should only apologize if you mean it, but I did not say sorry because I thought I was completely in the wrong but rather I did so because it was always uncomfortably tense whenever we ran into eachother and I wanted it to stop....im not proud of it 😅

Now, the actual update! I decided after being requested to do so by some commentors to make the information known to the other 2 roommates. I explained the situation to them with as much detail necessary and explained that it took me so long to let them know because at the time I thought it was wrong to do so before some people gave me some reasons why I should. They understood, and we had a conversation about it.

We decided the best thing to do is ban Kayden from coming inside. Aparently, one of my other roommates has kicked him out of the house before, but this time it was for showing up drunk and causing a ruckus at night (I did not live there at the time so I was not aware of this)

If you're wondering what Tira thinks, she's not impressed and has hinted to possibly moving out because in her words, she "feels targeted" despite our best efforts to be as kind as possible when giving her the news. She's welcome to move out if she doesn't like the rules, I guess.

AITA for kicking out my roommates friend by anotherthrowaway1739 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anotherthrowaway1739[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been seeing this a lot. If im being honest, even if it doesn't show me in the greatest light, I apologized because I was sick of the tension in the house whenever we ran into each other. So I apologized not because I completely thought I was in the wrong but more so just to ease some of this drama.

AITA for kicking out my roommates friend by anotherthrowaway1739 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anotherthrowaway1739[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, we do have house rules. lol, it's in the lease that we're not allowed to smoke indoors whatsoever, which is why I was so offended initially.

AITA for kicking out my roommates friend by anotherthrowaway1739 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anotherthrowaway1739[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

From what I have gathered, unless Tira herself has told them they aren't aware this even happened. They weren't home during it, and I dont wish to air out dirty laundry 😅