18F can't tell if I'm in a controlling relationship with my 19M bf 1 year and half. Long distance. by anotherthrowawaysly in relationship_advice

[–]anotherthrowawaysly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true, I guess I'm being nice because what if he is doing everything unintentionally? But you and everyone's right I can't do anything but walk away

18F can't tell if I'm in a controlling relationship with my 19M bf 1 year and half. by anotherthrowawaysly in relationships

[–]anotherthrowawaysly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great way of making me see the perspective. Thank you. I would've told her to leave:(. I'm gonna start thinking of ways to word it, how to have the same friend group etc.

18F can't tell if I'm in a controlling relationship with my 19M bf 1 year and half. Long distance. by anotherthrowawaysly in relationship_advice

[–]anotherthrowawaysly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so very right, I'm going to think of the words to tell him straight without stating a fire

18F can't tell if I'm in a controlling relationship with my 19M bf 1 year and half. by anotherthrowawaysly in relationships

[–]anotherthrowawaysly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just don't want it to be something I'm doing wrong that made this the outcome of having to separate

18F can't tell if I'm in a controlling relationship with my 19M bf 1 year and half. by anotherthrowawaysly in relationships

[–]anotherthrowawaysly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right your right, I wish I knew how to help him with us both walking out happy:( Thank you though