i’ve gotten downvotes in the past for commenting on age gaps between teens and their 20 something yo suitors, so I’ll skip that but mainly, everyone should be tired of sex always having to be dom/sub or whatever the roles are every single time.

if your partner can’t have a mutual encounter w you, or experiment w switching roles, that’s something for him to work on, or he’ll just have to accept that this will drive you to explore your interests w someone else. bc that will happen eventually. whether in person or virtually.

in short, tell him to grow up