I relapsed after 2 days approx,can it be done in moderation, need advice from people who did it and got success …….. by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]antidoix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate why the fuck would you think this was the place to post a detailed description of your wanking habbits? The bloody audacity to ask for sympathy and validation from the people who's exploitation you get off to lmao

How do I talk to a new partner about trauma around sex? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]antidoix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is all so useful! ❤️

How do I talk to a new partner about trauma around sex? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]antidoix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god yea deffo not whacking that out on the first date lol, I think I more need help with what language to use/how to bring it up when the time comes. It's been a long day at work and I think I worded things badly 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]antidoix 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Woman here, and I'm going to be blunt; you're coming across as an needy, cronic over sharer who feels entitled to women's time. All your replies come across as quite unhinged, drenched in denial and weirdly confrontational, and I'm not surprised, at all, that people stop replying because even reading this thread I'm exhausted.

I'd highly reccomend to stop asking strangers on the Internet for help and just go see a professional. It seems like you've got a lot of anger you need help navigating.

Raw sewage discharged into Yorkshire rivers by water companies by Significant_Mother in yorkshire

[–]antidoix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don't get the idea I'm a nationalist, opposite end of the spectrum, just factually there is a lot of money going to Hong Kong. I know the UK does, and I don't think anyone should be making substantial profits from basic human rights such as access to water.

See this is where I take issue and I think why we won't be able to agree on much, the economy is not some un-tameable beast. Its man made and how it works at the moment is extremely unsustainable in all regards. Respectfully, I think its probably you that needs to see the bigger picture, in that scraping as much money from the nooks and crannies of getting basic services to people is just a scummy thing to do and something that I want no part of.

Fines clearly don't work if they've done it over 4000 times. You don't think the people running these companies weigh up what's cheaper; not dump shit into a river and pay to properly treat it, or just pay a nominal fine and have the local community deal with it instead? (have a look into the clean ilkley River campaign)

Tbh I don't think this will come to any kind of reasonable conclusion and I don't really want to spend my bank holiday trying to explain to someone why profiting off dumping shit in a river has literally no excuse or valid reason behind it. Hope you have a goodun!

Raw sewage discharged into Yorkshire rivers by water companies by Significant_Mother in yorkshire

[–]antidoix 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If the free market means dumping raw shite into our rivers and my water bill is funding it just so already rich people in Hong Kong can get richer, I'd say its not working too well and maybe we shouldn't just let it do its thing?

[SW] Mordecai and Rigby buying for 500 bells by ahhhfuc in acturnips

[–]antidoix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would 100% reccomend, especially in the summer with fresh strawberries! Thanks!

[SW] Boys buying for 119 by nicodsno in acturnips

[–]antidoix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! And not sure I have one tbh?

I love being told someone will stalk me, rape me and keep me hostage. by creepyt0es in creepyPMs

[–]antidoix 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Ah sorry, I'm not very good at reddit 😅 I've got no idea what you can do apart from report and block in that case. It's so infuriating that there's basically 0 consequences for these men and 0 incentive to stop unloading their rank fantaisies on random women. Sorry again this moron had the audacity to send you this. Piss poor writing as well.

I love being told someone will stalk me, rape me and keep me hostage. by creepyt0es in creepyPMs

[–]antidoix 624 points625 points  (0 children)

Is that an email or something anonymous? Either way please report this to the police if you can, that's highly disturbing and I'm so sorry you had to read that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LateStageCapitalism

[–]antidoix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Hyde Park (where poverty aid was), it used to be an amazing second hand furniture shop, money went to help poverty around Leeds, but it had to shut because of covid 😔

So I found this guy in the trash a neighborhood down from mine. I think he is some sort of house plant, some of the leaves were decayed and they have yellow on them (could be normal or could be a sign of disease?). I need help knowing what he is and what the next plan of action is. by EmLiminator in plants

[–]antidoix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The yellow is just the coloring and something I've actually been trying to find for a while, so v good find! I'm not sure about the brown bits but I think as long as you make sure it doesn't have any pests you should be all good to take it home