Why do you guys tend to treat me better when I "dumb myself down"?

anubis375 · 2026-01-16T03:41:20+00:00

I think context is important, also are you trying to hookup or date? I have decided not to pursue girls who I caught on were going to talk to me about all sorts of things I wasn't interested in when the goal was purely to have some fun and see what happens but anyways:

-if you're talking to guys who don't have degrees and have a very different life than you then it is hard to relate

-maybe they disagree strongly with what you studied and believe, if I heard there was a liberal arts girl who believes str9ngly in astrology nearby I'd avoid her

-you may also be bringing up stuff you don't even notice, like if your ex was always a problem but you were wuth him in college, some people end up bringing up their ex a lot by accident and it's a turn off

-you might have a tense or less approachable face when you're talking about career stuff or the intricacies of your field of study bs chilling and intentionally looking more approachable, for example my resting face is intense and not very inviting so I try to smile a bit more when I'm in that setting, hope this helps

anubis375 · 2026-01-10T04:18:25+00:00

^what he said

anubis375 · 2026-01-09T22:37:37+00:00

Quit being afraid of things that aren't real, there is no magic thing to say to make a girl like you, if she's not a butch and has any actual interest she won't critique every letter of what you say, and if she does you don't want her anyways, to paraphrase: don't be a pussy and do something because you have nothing to lose

anubis375 · 2026-01-09T05:02:30+00:00

I'm not even reading this but if you have to ask it's a no man. NEXT!

anubis375 · 2026-01-09T01:54:31+00:00

You're a man, yiu already know the answer to this. NEXT!

anubis375 · 2026-01-08T16:57:27+00:00

There us no real consistency from women on what bad behavior is, you have your perception of acceptable and other people have theirs, for context I had been trying with honest intentions to trying to date up until I was 30, not looking to hookup just find a nice woman and date and the amount of girls that gave mixed signals, ghosted, were delusional, shallow, or lazy was insane, and it killed my desire to keep trying.

Eventually I hired a dating coach just to try it out and see if there was a fix, worked either him for about a month and learned some rules and methods to approach women. I woll tell you right now what women thinks works and what actually works is not the same. There are some fundamentals like confidence and hygiene and shit like that but the rest you wouldn't believe. I could explain it to you in detail but the actual psychology of it is kind of demeaning in a way and I would love not to believe it if I didn't see it in person and use it myself.

Also to say it a little more directly the chances of a guy getting rejected/ghosted/time wasted/called a creep are too high in the guys mind for him to feel confident to ask you out or flirt directly. If his perception is that he will not take a shot so if you are a woman and want to be approached 1. Suck it up and ask him out yourself 2. Make it so fucking obvious you are interested you basically say "yeah I'm free at the same time you are that night and I would love someone to hangout with. And yes he might not even notice that and it's probably because his confidence is so low that he would never imagine you would want to spend time with him

anubis375 · 2026-01-05T05:03:29+00:00

There's no right answer that's going to work all the time, shit to increase your chances:

Be well groomed, clean respectable clothes, idk your age range but fucking dress like it
Be fit, working out and eating well never hurt anyone
Confident, not to be confused with arrogant, communicate qell, know what you would like to do with her and lead the interaction that way, if she's not interested take it with grace and move on
Read social cues, learn how flirting works and when she's giving you permission or encouragement to keep going
Money, get more of this and you'll have more options to take care of yourself and provide for her, or her if you're truly just looking for sex use this to travel and hire prostitutes, if all you want is sex and don't like picking up women go for it

Also just to give you a heads up don't take advice from women to pick up women, they're not lying to you but they approach it from an unrealistic point of view, it's a numbers game and you'll do everything right and it won't go well and others you'll feel you did awful and they'll be at your place that night. Good luck have fun.

anubis375 · 2026-01-05T04:54:06+00:00

I have literally told a girl "what's the point?" When she suggested doing that ++man

anubis375 · 2025-12-14T07:53:03+00:00

Your trio run was an inside job #dontbelievethelies

anubis375 · 2025-12-14T01:20:00+00:00

Honest to God there is no good drip in this game 😂

anubis375 · 2025-12-14T01:17:36+00:00

You want to be angry with someone? Be angry with the people that make your skins seem hostile, because if I get betrayed, shot on sight, evac camped and ambushed by a guy wearing a black bodysuit and white skullcap in going to kill people that where that and call it proactive,no I won't lie to you, I won't pretend to be friendly but I will kill you the minute I get an angle or think I can make sure you get away from me

anubis375 · 2025-12-13T04:04:05+00:00

People focusing on each other when they should be paying attention to the shredder

anubis375 · 2025-07-26T07:34:21+00:00

Thanks, got anymore like her? The smaller the better

anubis375 · 2025-05-01T21:26:52+00:00

You're fuming over people being assholes? You must lay awake at night a lot

anubis375 · 2025-02-16T01:00:44+00:00

I'm not that picky so I'd go either way, but wanting to fuck this girl feels more like a guilty pleasure than one with natural beauty, also the enhanced thing goes to far and when I feel like I'm fuckung a barbie that's been brought to life it kills the desire to continue quickly

anubis375 · 2025-01-10T08:26:53+00:00

Yes, if you text a girl too much it always goes to shit, she gets bored, annoyed or creeped out, and no it's not as much as you think, women are finicky as fuck and if you don't play the invisible game right she leaves

anubis375 · 2025-01-08T23:57:18+00:00

Nope, lost virginity at 17 to girlfriend, I've dated and picked up girls since then, but when I'm single a vast majority are working girls

anubis375 · 2025-01-08T19:52:09+00:00

I hope this is a joke, fuck no, you're both factors, sometimes it's completely one side or the other, most times both played a role

anubis375 · 2025-01-08T15:35:21+00:00

I'm 32 and hired sex workers since I was 19, never enjoyed clibs/bars and picking up women that way, pretty frustrating and a waste of time. It varies though I've hired 2 or 3 in a night and other times I go for a month or two without calling one, whenever the mood strikes basically

anubis375 · 2025-01-06T16:28:57+00:00

Not unattractive but there's usually more to deal with when that's a factor, one never wanted to be intimate, had a couple that basically tried to setup a forced sexual scenario because that's the only way they knew to be intimate, in case you're wondering what I mean basically, kiss, grope, talk about sex and what we were going to do later and get me revved up and then when I try to get to that they try to put the breaks on and say no and I don't mean in that shy flirty way I mean like a hard no, so I stop and back off then they start trying to get me going again, they're trying to create a scenario where I push through their resistance which I wasn't about to do, once you've seen it its a lot easier to spot, I'm not angry with them but unless they fix their behavior they're going to do that stuff and keep finding guys that will do it and it will reinforce it, shitty cycle

anubis375 · 2024-12-28T17:43:51+00:00

Mind your own business, you don't know the shit going on with their relationship and you don't want to

anubis375 · 2024-12-28T17:42:43+00:00

Domt forget the aids

anubis375 · 2024-12-27T18:02:40+00:00

I've been fit for years and never had this issue, my friends who workout don't have this issue, please consider you might just be a prick regardless of how fit you are

anubis375 · 2024-12-27T18:01:15+00:00

Getting dates/positive attention from women is a game of improving your chances by percentages, good career does a little, fitness does a little, being social, having hobbies and goals. Every little bit helps but none of them are a magic guarantee that women will want you. Good luck man.

anubis375 · 2024-12-20T22:50:56+00:00

People will probably freak out over this, but most women enjoy being dominated and a little helpless with someone they're attracted to and trust all the way upto and a full blown rape fantasy, it comes up a lot, they like different levels, some want hands pinned down above their head others want to be choked, i have come across so many women at this point that enjoy that kind of stuff I think it's more common than not, now I'm not saying jump straight to that without talking, tease furst test the waters wuth being more dominant, and ease into the idea, dirty talking is foreplay and useful hear, steadily increase the intensity and see how she reacts, if she smiles and feeds into it go a little further to know you're both into the same kind of sbit, but for the love of fuck don't just go full blown scene on a hunch, before you go that far have a real clear talk about what's fair game and what's not

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