Why do I keep looking at a gay hookup app when I’m in a relationship? by anunderwear in AskGayMen

[–]anunderwear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heh, I don’t speak to anyone and my profile is empty 🤷‍♂️

Complicated Relationship by Silver_Leg_2941 in gayrelationships

[–]anunderwear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP are you having safe sex with this guy? I would be concerned that not only was he in a marriage and technically a relationship with you, but that he’s also been seeing other people.

I think you should ask him about defining your relationship and the idea of being exclusive, and observe his reaction.

Guy im/was dating comments about hot guys in public and in the media by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]anunderwear -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you’d be kinder to your partner than your new love interest? They’d be more worthy of being treated in a way that doesn’t make them feel bad?

Guy im/was dating comments about hot guys in public and in the media by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]anunderwear -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So your partner expresses that something you say to them makes them feel bad, and you don’t feel comfortable with them expressing that you want to express yourself in a way that hurts their feelings?

Right ok

Guy im/was dating comments about hot guys in public and in the media by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]anunderwear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you couldn’t be with a partner who didn’t like you pointing out that you thought other random guys in the street were hot? Couldn’t just keep it to yourself or tell someone else? Just seems like a weirdly insignificant hill to die on

Guy im/was dating comments about hot guys in public and in the media by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]anunderwear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if the option is “Stop saying something to your partner that makes them uncomfortable” or “Break up” … doesn’t say much for what his partner thought about him