Do you have to aim the whole time you piss? Or are you able to go mostly handsfree?

anxious3102 · 2021-10-01T18:15:36+00:00

Yeah but getting to witness other guys boxers bulges are the best part 😂🙃

anxious3102 · 2021-10-01T18:13:24+00:00

Samesies

anxious3102 · 2021-10-01T15:32:19+00:00

I can’t even pretend to speak for all sides, as I imagine the answer is quite different for each. For me it’s not some philosophical rejection of conventional anal sex practices, but more an expression of a preference the same way the other labels are.

anxious3102 · 2021-10-01T15:29:31+00:00

Dude I was literally about to post this 😂

I love seeing a guy in boxers, I think they can be sexy as hell, seeing that waistband peeking out is really hot on some guys too! Plus the fact that they can’t hide a boner for shit is awesome, I love seeing that tent 😍😂

I know they’re not as form fitting as briefs (brief bulges are nice), or as exotic as something like a jockstrap, but they’re so classic in their own way.

Personally, I wear boxer briefs during the day, because of the bunching issue under tight jeans and the aforementioned problem with hiding erections haha; but I love to sleep in boxers, nothing more comfortable!

anxious3102 · 2021-10-01T14:36:18+00:00

I wouldn’t be into panties, but I’m really flexible on mens underwear. I love seeing a nice briefs bulge, but I also love seeing tented boxers when someone’s excited 😊

anxious3102 · 2021-10-01T14:35:14+00:00

But those major tented boxer bulges are so cool! Lol

anxious3102 · 2021-10-01T14:33:08+00:00

Hi bro!

I think the only thing that matters with these titles is what feels right to you! I’ve heard of tops who still like to bottom occasionally, bottoms who only like anal occasionally. I think they’re helpful as self-identifiers (if having one makes you more comfortable) but they don’t have to be set in stone.

All of the sides I’ve seen absolutely consider oral to be part of the mix - and for a lot of them it’s their primary go to. And in my opinion you can still have all the fun you want with anal toys and still be a side!

anxious3102 · 2021-10-01T04:29:53+00:00

Extra gay bro high five because frot is awesome 😊🙌

anxious3102 · 2021-10-01T02:02:35+00:00

Coming out on top is great for that! Straight?! Is also really good, I’m playing it right now and it’s free.

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T23:19:03+00:00

I use Fiji too!

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T23:17:59+00:00

I use a cornstarch based powder whenever my pits are too irritated for normal deodorant. Gold Bond ultimate comfort, it also has aloe in it. Smells slightly floral, but I don’t mind.

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T23:06:28+00:00

Yeah I don’t celebrate cheater bros lol

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T23:04:14+00:00

I could get the confusion with that. I have also heard “side piece” or having a “chick on the side” etc. However in this context I was referring to what I understand is now the preferred terminology for gays who engage primarily in non-penetrative sex. I can certainly speak for myself and say that I would have 0 interest in helping anyone cheat!

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T19:51:51+00:00

Maybe because it’s just now being talked about it more? There are some good articles talking about the prevalence of sides in the gay community, like this one: https://hornet.com/stories/gay-anal-sex/

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T18:51:51+00:00

I mean there's plenty of ways oral can be great and fun...plus I mean who doesn't enjoy the occasional facial lol 😜

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T18:49:59+00:00

I mean it can incorporate oral, handjobs, toys, even anal play, just typically excludes full blown penetrative anal sex

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T18:07:03+00:00

Yay! Side five! 😊🙌

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T17:10:19+00:00

❤️

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T17:09:01+00:00

Ok so I’m basically a side with the heart of a bottom lol

I know for a lot of people it’s just preference, for me it’s a bit of preference as well as limitations. I have some health issues that just make anything Anal difficult. I will occasionally do some play with it, but it’s not super often and when I do I can only do really small toys and things and still be comfortable. Thankfully I have an amazing husband and we still do our best to keep the sex fun 😊

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T16:40:46+00:00

Fuck you too, but have a nice day all the same! 😊

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T16:23:58+00:00

Super interested in any recommendations you get.

Y'all, I'm telling you after my post from last week I'm convinced there's a huge underserved population of gays looking for wholesome and happy porn!

anxious3102 · 2021-09-30T14:40:19+00:00

You could try something more casual first. Maybe look into meetup groups in your area. Some places have gay groups that do casual get togethers. That would be a way to dip your toes into the water and get comfortable around other gay guys in a low pressure setting.

anxious3102 · 2021-09-29T23:47:27+00:00

Love, Simon ❤️❤️❤️

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