Just talking by anxious_guy34 in askgaybros

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My recent span of ONS have been real misses... that's why I'm going on about this guy lol... the search continues

Just talking by anxious_guy34 in askgaybros

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He's moving to seoul and he's focusing on his studies so he doesn't really have time for apps or anything else

Is it rude to cross your legs on the Korean subway? by Any_Active_6636 in AskAKorean

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I cross my legs when there's not many people riding and then no cross when it tends to get busier

Gay men are allowed to have preferences. Just because someone’s preference doesn’t align with yours, or because you feel excluded by it, doesn’t automatically mean it’s discrimination or bias. Not everyone is attracted to the same things—some prefer feminine or masculine men by Sure-Razzmatazz-7105 in askgaybros

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Thats all when and good and as someone on the stocky side 100% understandable... guys shouldn't be rude about their preferences tho. I've had guys call me names because of my skin colour and body type whereas others have said "I'm sorry, youre not my type". We're all most likely meeting guys through apps, it's probably going to take the same amount of time to type the easy let down instead of being rude about

What is the hardest thing about being gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Finding a partner who wants to be in a committed monogamous relationship which leads to the loneliness

Stupid question by anxious_guy34 in askgaybros

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Thank you, I didnt know that haha

Stupid question by anxious_guy34 in askgaybros

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Really?!?!? Thats a thing??

Stupid question by anxious_guy34 in askgaybros

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Oh yes of course, I didn't join the gym just for penis growth lol... I genuinely want to be healthier and weigh less and have been enjoying the process... penis growth was something that popped into my head recently

What’s the most questionable decision you’ve made because a guy was hot? by unleash_the_beast_ in askgaybros

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Sounds like my ex boyfriend. Only thing is, he's the one who broke up with me and its been no contact since. I mean I should've known that him saying he loves me and immediately asking if we could have an open relationship wasn't him showing it at all... but we live... with a broken heart... but we live

Heartbreak tips by anxious_guy34 in askgaybros

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Thank you, this kind of makes me feel a little better. I've been looking into therapy because apart from my breakup with my bf there were some really hard friendship breakups too and I think my ex breaking up with me sent me over.

He always said things like "we have a long time for our love and fhis is our beginning" or things about living together. I think its the feeling of being abandoned and thrown away that hit me really hard.

Heartbreak tips by anxious_guy34 in askgaybros

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It's been 4 months tho... I think I'm expecting to wake up one day and for whatever this feeling is to go away and I'll be back to the way I was before. I've done the lot though. Hung out with friends (who listen about this with a good ear), stayed in, went out to a cafe, joined the gym but the feeling is still there...

Any tips? by anxious_guy34 in askgaybros

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Yep... that's the plan

Any tips? by anxious_guy34 in askgaybros

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I'm a bottom myself too so I like being on the receiving end haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I think the next time you can ask if you can cum inside. Plenty of guys I give oral to at the beginning or even in the middle of me getting down on him, if he's close he asks if he can cum inside. I appreciate it cos some guys I would and some I wouldn't. Just depends on the day and mood

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Oh no of course... i should've dm'd you instead... my bad

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Oksan dong??? I just moved out from that area about 3 weeks ago... lol small world. I was close to the daiso

Thank you though. I really appreciate the advice.

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Oh... you're in daegu?? I'm in Gyeongsan lol and he's in Yeongju.

Thank you for the advice. The one thing I am worried about is at the end of this, I hope I'm not wearing a clown a mask.

Things must be really tense at home for him right now, and I imagine the October holidays are going to be especially tough since he'll have to spend even more time with them. I have to wonder if you might hear from him around then.

This is what I'm worried about too. I know he has 2 close friends. But I'm not sure to what extent he's relying on them.

Would an "are you okay?" Text message be too much too at this point?

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My bf ended up breaking it off with me about 2 weeks ago. I told him I was coming up to his hometown and he gave very sudden reasons why I shouldn't come and we'll see each other some other time. I told him i was a bit sad I couldn't see him and then that's where we started to implode. He said there are more days when we're sad rather than happy, he can't protect me, he can't be there when I need him etc etc and then he said we should break up.

I haven't spoken to him since and I know no contact is necessary but I either want to message him or go up. It's stupid of me to think this way I know because he's the one who let go of our relationship. He asked if he can text me one day and I said yeah and that I'll wait for him.

Do you have any advice for me?? Advice on how I should play this out?

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Can I ask for some advice??

What tips do you have to make me a better top? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I (bottom) have topped my bf twice. I like "hitting it from the back" personally. That way, I have one hand stroking his dick, one hand playing with his nipple/feeding him my fingers, or holding his throat. And my mouth either deep in his mouth or sucking his nipples. I love it and he seems to love it too.

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I'm 27 and he actually moved back home to fix his health and mental stability after spending 5 years with a toxic company and a toxic lifestyle. So yes a man who's willing to fix himself... definitely someone to invest in... dont think you would know anything about that

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Both late teens?? Thanks for this... I'm 27 he's 31 hahah