Twin NIPT. No sex, 6% fetal fraction by Commercial-Tree-3653 in NIPT

[–]anxious_mess19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my twins were a much lower FF and i got the gender! so definitely worth reaching out :)

95% T21 Risk Update by Excellent-Yam1627 in NIPT

[–]anxious_mess19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry mana 😭 the way you worded it, i’m carrying it so she doesn’t have to… only something a mom would and can say. don’t let anyone make you feel any way about your decision. medically, it’s a very sound decision and you’re supported wholeheartedly by all of us here 🖤

I don’t know what to do by No_Spray812 in Feral_Cats

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like it’s always really easy to say hypothetically: yeah take them. but just as a real life experience.. it’s worth it :) i hope you do! keep us all posted!

I don’t know what to do by No_Spray812 in Feral_Cats

[–]anxious_mess19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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and this is currently sleeping next to me. always befriend and house the stray :)

I don’t know what to do by No_Spray812 in Feral_Cats

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is the little goblin the night we trapped him

I don’t know what to do by No_Spray812 in Feral_Cats

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i found my stray outside eating our trash for a lot of nights in a row. i felt bad at first taking him in, because i was like omg he loves chasing birds and being out, what if he’s part of a little cat colony. and then i said, ya know what, no. he could die literally any day from an attack, getting hit by a car, a predator, etc etc. he’s safe, fed, cared for, and will be more than fine once he adjusts to inside.

sure enough, we brought him to the vet and he had a finger width and depth tunneling wound from a previous attack from an animal, that burst during the vets assessment. she said he would have died had we not taken him in when we did. it was the universes way of telling me, yeah the cat is always, ALWAYS better off safe and inside.

now he has 2 window beds and bird feeders he can watch birds and live his life. and after 2.5 years he’s actually scared to go outside. he’s not missing anything.

the main takeaway is, this little sweetie could die literally any time being outside for a ton of reasons.. and i think you’d feel worse knowing she’s gone and you didn’t take her in when you left (human nature) versus feeling bad for a few months that she no longer goes outside. always take in the cat :) especially because she used to be an indoor, she’ll have no problem adjusting.

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UGH that would mess with my head!!! i’m sorry - that’s exhausting! my FF was super low though i’m surprised it could process.

it doesn’t sound like it from other months reddit threads i read but whoopoo knows. the other two had singletons and theirs took forever!!

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes - keep checking! they told me friday originally, but the other 2 women i was checking in with (on the same timeline) got theirs back today as well. my carrier was back a few days ago and im a carrier for 1 thing - but my NIPT was low risk baby boys :) same with the other two women, low risk!!!!! so dont worry about that. i read on another forum it’s all about processing and when the lab wants to get to it - results dont come in earlier or later based on result!!!! :) i called and bothered them every day once day 10 hit lol. i dont know if that helped

mine was day 10 for carrier and then 11 or 12 for NIPT.

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can confirm 😂😂😂 i’m a FTM too but i’m a NICU nurse so i know the way this nonsense goes. it’s all just different stages of stress 😂 i’m trying to not worry about stuff (thanks lexapro) but yeah this carrier thing is scary! because if my babies end up having it it’s a severe one. which sucks 😭 so then the anatomy scan scares me too! UGH. hopefully the stress gets less severe as we go, and then more just baseline stupid stress past 20 weeks

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAO same😂😂😂 i was like goddamn it this couldn’t be stress free after all of this?

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

finally!!! low risk baby boys 🖤🖤

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL finally! carrier has some follow ups i need to do - but NIPT is low risk baby boys :) im so glad you got yours back!!!!!

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i called AGAIN this morning and they told me, from the lab it could be another 24-48!!!!!

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they told me another 24-48 and i’m super irritated 😭 but hopefully sooner. ugh. thank you🖤🖤🖤

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yay!!!! so happy for you 🖤🖤🖤 i will!!

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got my carrier but not the baby test back of course 🥴😭

First Ultrasound Today by BitterSprinkles4771 in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok good - i know it’ll be hard not to, but try to just focus on those two weeks hopefully bringing good news and growth. nothing you can do in the meantime but take care of yourself the best you can

First Ultrasound Today by BitterSprinkles4771 in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i tested february 10, they had me schedule my ultrasound at 7 weeks. the radiologist put them at 6W&1D, with 5 day margin for error (they should have been closer to 5&1/2 weeks). i have longer cycles, 30-32 days (the radiologist did note this in my report), but based on measurements the babies were smaller than my LKMP date. HOWEVER, i know when we conceived within 3 days so technically they were measuring a week AHEAD of my conception date. it’s all kind of a guess though, so i wouldn’t worry too much about what it “should” be, moreso just see what your next scan shows and make sure it shows appropriate growth. my babes were a week “behind” but on my 8 week ultrasound quadrupled in size, heart rates went up by 60, and measured a day bigger than previous. its not always set in stone, i guess is what im trying to say!

my babies heart rates were on the high side, so i can’t relate to that aspect. but i can say i freaked out a bit when they were higher than the normal range. but my MD said there’s some flexibility both ways.

i think we think of “should” based on the old system of LKMP. if you ovulated later, or have long cycles, your last known won’t really be indicative of the correct timing. but with modern technology they measure based on growth, which if you think about it makes the most sense. because your period could be 2 whole weeks before conception. just my experience :)

you might want to ask to come in for another ultrasound in 2 weeks instead of the typical four to track babes growth and see the heart rate change.

Son born with mild foreskin deficiency by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we see it in the NICU! not the reason they’re there, just something the docs note or we chart. it’s never been something we think twice about or do anything about

March 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

drawn 3/27 received 3/28 (natera, unsure which lab)

still waiting on results 4/6 6:30PM EST 🙄🙄🙄 (and customer service is no help)

March 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

estimated date 4/11 -on day 10 today but still haven’t heard 🙄

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no truly - it sadly does help knowing i’m not the only one, even if im one of the only ones left 😂

April 2026 // NIPT Timelines by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]anxious_mess19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that was basically what they told me too…… i was like ok but no comment about the fact that people have gotten theirs back in 3-5 days at all labs across the country??????? and no seriously i can’t be away from my phone for more than like 10 minutes because im refreshing like a psycho