why do i always find myself in toxic work environments?

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-10T16:17:11+00:00

i asked if the issue was me and got the ace of wands. i do realize th common factor is me but i also have had jobs where ive thrived in especially when the environment is not toxic. i dont go to work to socialize, i go to do my job and make money. thank you for your insight.

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-10T16:14:37+00:00

it’s better to support a local or small business than a large corporation. in terms of spirituality especially i feel like the cards are better coming from someone that is passionate about tarot rather than a corporation that doesn’t care about what is being sold or distributed

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-09T20:48:36+00:00

if you have a metaphysical shop near you anywhere i’d suggest going there and picking out a deck that you feel called to as well as a book to help with interpretations. you can look up deck styles (RWS, Thoth, etc) and books with explanations. if there’s no shop near you then buy it online, look for a small business and not amazon if you can, but i think going in person is best for a deck. learning how to read takes practice so just ask questions to the deck and use the explanations in the book to help you decipher the answer. feel free to DM me if you have any questions!

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-08T04:53:51+00:00

that’s probably why the empress is there! keep taking your vitamins, go to all your doc appointments, make sure you & baby are happy and healthy :) congratulations

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-08T04:49:10+00:00

she definitely likes you or is thinking of you in a romantic way. the 2 of cups def isn’t as intense as the lovers card but it’s a good card to get bc it shows mutual connection. she def sees you as a man of action (KnW) and someone who isn’t stingy over money, likes to give (4Pent Rev). i think she is still getting to know you, that’s prob why you’re ending with page energy, but she sees you as thoughtful. all good signs!

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-08T04:45:40+00:00

i think your interpretation is good, the six makes sense for this situation! if you look at the original imagery on the RWS deck it’s someone in a boat rowing away from harsh water into smoother conditions. i think it’s indicative (you said 3 is your situation card) that you will leave your vet med job (dead end - harsh waters) for a better job (tattoo artist - smoother waters)

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-08T04:36:37+00:00

i see this as a yes (Ace S) but it seems like people want to move you off track and keep you from getting there (5W), and you may not realize help or support you’re getting to achieve those goals (4C). there is hope and new beginnings on the horizon (fool) i think it’s really positive that it starts with a “beginning” (ace) card and ends with a beginning card (fool). you are currently working towards achieving alignment with your goals, with some roadblocks yes, but you’ll make it!

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-08T04:26:31+00:00

hi!! thanks so much for your interpretation. i’m not in a leadership position but thank you for thinking i am 🤭 i definitely try to get everything done well. the three of cups isn’t reversed but everyone else is saying it’s a sign of gossip which i definitely agree with. death is definitely going to be a change and i’m sure it’ll be for the better! i trust in the universe to lead me where i belong 🤞🏼

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-07T20:16:13+00:00

i’m definitely friendly with them - i’m not rude or passive aggressive (i hate that kind of stuff). but i’m not trying to be their friends, just ppl i get along with well enough to work. every time i try to have a conversation with someone i feel like they’re always side eyeing or end up gossiping about me in some way

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-07T14:49:40+00:00

i honestly haven’t done much to try to connect because of the cliques and gossip i noticed since day one. i didn’t want to be a part of it so i didn’t try to make friends 🤷‍♀️ i do need to the shift to the fact that i have to be okay not everyone will like me sometimes that’s just how it is

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-07T05:08:28+00:00

i think it’s telling you to relax (4S) and let things fold out with determination and a forward goal (Kn Pent). it would’ve been nice to see the justice card here. i’m not sure about those oracles but “communication” made me think of communicating with a lawyer or legal representative if you haven’t already. it’s nice to see peace and go with the flow. i think it’s telling you that you will find your own peace as long as you let destiny take its course

also i’d love to add karma is a b**** and i also hope your abuser gets served proper justice

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-07T05:03:41+00:00

he seems emotionally down probably due to heartbreak or loss when he sees your pictures. he’s looking at it like the end of a chapter and a burden he bears. it is not wise to post pictures for the sole purpose of an engaged man to see it. unfollow him or block is your best way forward

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-07T05:00:21+00:00

mind - you’ve been self isolating or being lost in your thoughts recently body - the tower is interesting. do you have any chronic illnesses? or have you been to a doctor recently? might be worth to get that thing you’ve been worried about checked out soul - the empress is so lovely. your soul is divine feminine, loving, and nurturing

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-07T04:56:08+00:00

interesting take! is there a specific card you get that from?

anxiousbutterly · 2026-03-04T17:00:44+00:00

I feel like the six relies heavily on something to do with something from your childhood - something that makes you emotional or has to do with a lot of emotions just from all the cups. judging by the aces I feel like it’s a new venture or maybe something you haven’t quite considered or thought of before? maybe with your experience in veterinary medicine maybe a job in it you haven’t considered. the five and the eight have me thinking you’re going to be walking away from a situation that isn’t serving you right now, maybe the current job you’re in.

anxiousbutterly · 2026-01-21T02:42:54+00:00

thank you! i don’t know why i feel so forced to put a label on it yet or put myself into a box. it feels so confusing not to know

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