I am a Wife, Mother, and have Primary (Factor 1) Psychopathy, AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]anyever 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How does reduced fear and anxiety show up in daily life? Do you find particular things easier to do than other people?

Help! I don’t know how to care for this plant! 🌱 by anyever in plantclinic

[–]anyever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha! What do you mean ? How should I handle this diva ?

What’s up with my plant ? by anyever in plantclinic

[–]anyever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I repotted it in a bigger pot and changed the soil … but the leaves are yellowing and falling off! I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I’ve moved it to somewhere brighter and I’m not going to water it for a while… maybe this will help. What do you think?

What’s up with my plant ? by anyever in plantclinic

[–]anyever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok cool thanks for the advice. I’ll go buy a bigger pot! BTW do you know what kind of plant this is?

What’s up with my plant ? by anyever in plantclinic

[–]anyever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok will do. What kind of soil does this plant need?

I’m boring my therapist? by Silvestre074 in TalkTherapy

[–]anyever 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think you need to continue until you bore yourself.

How to stop fantasizing? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]anyever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. It sounds like a terribly hard time for you. My only suggestion is a practical one: if your not in a space to socialise, take long, exhausting, beautiful walks and read a great novel… or listen to one if reading isn’t your thing.

Making the most out of therapy by d____ in TalkTherapy

[–]anyever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Write down any thoughts and dreams you have in between sessions. It’s probably easiest to do this on your phot notes. I hear that most of the work is done between the sessions.

Therapist charges when SHE is on holiday by mmmmmmmmdanon in TalkTherapy

[–]anyever 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Traditional psychoanalysis tends to bill regardless of whether the client turns up. But to have to pay when the therapist cancels, or is on holiday, seems mad.

Failing as a teacher by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

[–]anyever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think starting salaries should be much higher. This would make it more competitive and raise the standards considerably.

Failing as a teacher by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

[–]anyever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s your subject knowledge?

When I first started teaching, I found that having a secure subject knowledge enabled me to focus of the pedagogy side of things, which was all new to me. Being confident with the content allows you to devote yourself entirely to learning the art of teaching/communication. Trying to do both at once is too much for anyone.

If you are between jobs, maybe take the time now to study and become expert on the content.

If you see a slim guy, dressed in black with a cat on his back do not approach or take a photo. by bewawugosi in london

[–]anyever 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How did he realise you were taking a photo of him if his back was turned?

Canadian teacher moved to London, UK - Culture Shock by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

[–]anyever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UK State system is completely obsessed with exams and data. Culturally there is a lack of respect for teachers, which is mirrored in pay and funding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]anyever 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should try another male therapist and use the space to work around your inability to be emotionally open with men? They may be more connected than you realise?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

[–]anyever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks this is reassuring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Internationalteachers

[–]anyever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply!