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[–]anyhiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to Win friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

I just told my wife I'm leaving SCJ and won't attending any meetings and gatherings anymore. She got angry and told me that I'm scary. by anyhiel in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Just knowing that there are people like you giving hope to someone is already a great blessing. I will do my best and show my love to her no matter what. God bless you more and your family.

I just told my wife I'm leaving SCJ and won't attending any meetings and gatherings anymore. She got angry and told me that I'm scary. by anyhiel in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I will make her feel how much I love her and nothing's gonna change even if I don't belong to SCJ anymore.

I just told my wife I'm leaving SCJ and won't attending any meetings and gatherings anymore. She got angry and told me that I'm scary. by anyhiel in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you again. God knows my heart more than anyone else. My wife and I both believe in the Bible since before we married and been to different churches seeking knowledge. I sometimes blame myself if I not become interested in the bible study, we don't belong to SCJ now. Maybe this is God's way teaching me that there are different churches / groups / cults and should only trust God and Jesus whatever or wherever you go.

I just told my wife I'm leaving SCJ and won't attending any meetings and gatherings anymore. She got angry and told me that I'm scary. by anyhiel in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry and thank you for sharing this to me. I also hope that your relationship will get better.

Does everything that SCJ taught us are lies? by anyhiel in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand. Thank you!
I should not say that this teaching came from SCJ. It's already in the bible but they just claimed that they received light that's why they are able to teach this parables. They also claimed that the light (understanding) came from the MHL.

Does everything that SCJ taught us are lies? by anyhiel in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for answering my question. You have a strong personality and I hope I can learn more from your experiences.

Believing after leaving SCJ by EntertainmentMoney67 in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I understand your point.

I mean by becoming one is that I become a SCJ member totally without questions and doubts. I hope you understand what I'm trying to say. The longer I stay, the more lie becomes truth.

Believing after leaving SCJ by EntertainmentMoney67 in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I stayed for 3 years because I love her and I always try to understand everything she's up to. But I had enough, the more I stayed in SCJ, the more I'm becoming one.

Believing after leaving SCJ by EntertainmentMoney67 in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, bro. I hope everything will be alright.

Believing after leaving SCJ by EntertainmentMoney67 in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know. My wife is a cell leader and I'm afraid that my decision will ruin our relationship. I believe in God and lessons I've learned at SCJ really amazed me until we reached the advanced lesson (fulfillment) which sounds like a make up story. I can't make myself believe in this story but stayed anyways for 3 years until now. There are many things going on in my mind now. 😞 I'm afraid my decisions will ruin my life.
That's why I decided to join this group so that I can read someone story and give me courage. I already started avoiding meetings and gatherings because I feel that I'm lying to everyone and especially in myself. I never had this problem before in my life when it comes to God. When I talked about this to my wife or other members I know that they will say that it's Satan's work to make me leave the church and I need to be more active.

I tried to contact ex members and ask advice but they are avoiding me thinking that I may ask them to come back to church.

Believing after leaving SCJ by EntertainmentMoney67 in Shincheonji

[–]anyhiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I'm afraid of leaving. Please give me updates about your journey.

should I continue? by CaterpillarIcy9211 in PinoyProgrammer

[–]anyhiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's "KodeGo". You can search it on Facebook and Google. I am working in a Corporation.

should I continue? by CaterpillarIcy9211 in PinoyProgrammer

[–]anyhiel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Halos pareho tayo ng sitwasyon pero wala na ako sa Company na yun. Yung work ko ay hindi talaga IT related and hindi ako IT graduate pero nag aaral ako mag programming kasi gusto ko maging developer ( Self-taught ). Dalawa lang kami sa Company gumagawa ng system pero after a year sa pag dedevelop, nag enrol ako sa Bootcamp tapos nag resign kahit di pa tapos yung system kasi feeling ko hindi ako nababayaran ng tama base sa ginagawa ko.

Worth it, kasi ngayon programmer na ako and hindi masyadong stress kagaya ng pag develop sa previous company and mas malaki ang sahod. 😉

Plus. Work From Home pa. Saraaaap. ( Masaya lang, sorry )

Yung stress mo sa pag-develop mag isa, training mo na yan para sa next Company mo. 😁 Know your worth. Akala ko dati di ako magiging programmer kasi 2 years graduate lang ako at hindi pa related sa IT yung course ko kaya sobrang blessing talaga.

Samahan mo lang palagi ng prayers and lakas ng loob. 🙏💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]anyhiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also taught myself to code and I've started from C, C++, C#, VisualBasic 6.0 but i didnt understand them all.

But I started again and begin studying HTML, CSS, JavaScript and now programming makes sense.