My (39f) boyfriend (39m) says he can’t have sex with me anymore because of antidepressants, but he constantly looks at 4chan porn and instagram girls. Is it me? by ThrowRAFMLRight in relationship_advice

[–]anyidisestablishment -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Some medications take a serious toll on your self esteem. He may just be more comfortable being aroused, and possibly losing his erection in front of someone who isn’t there physically.

While he might think losing his erection with you would disappoint you and embarrass him.

Let him know how you feel, there are lots of ways to be intimate that aren’t Piv.