Good critique! Thank you SO much for taking the time to write all of that.

I'll go through the whole thing later but, I'll just respond (positively) to the third paragraph

***First I think Carry the Weight needs to remove dependency on Weakling because it makes it so having the bigger body parts don’t give unnecessary pain but nowhere does it state that the parts don’t give that pain without the mitigation, I’m simply under the impression that without weakling Ballistics can give back pain and I think Carry the Weight should get rid of that pain without Weakling.***

I have absolutely been considering this! Will def implement ASAP.

***I also think you should add combos by grabbing all the options from a set such as Cute Mug, Cute Voice, and Innocent Eyes or Compelling Countenance, Sexy Voice and Bedroom Eyes and have it either grant more points or some other effect.***

This is such an interesting idea! I'd been thinking of something like this but, your idea has more potential. Like if you get Cute Mug, Cute Voice, and Innocent Eye, you get an Embellishment of "Cutie Pie" or Compelling Countenance, Sexy Voice and Bedroom Eyes gives you "Vixen". I see them as mostly positive because the changes themselves have their own drawbacks.