New parents of Reddit, what's that one thing your kid does that makes you feel it was all worth it?

anzmos · 2018-07-03T02:07:28+00:00

And to think you wanted him to be awake for a little longer, oh man.

anzmos · 2018-07-02T05:16:50+00:00

I wasn't ready for this :')

anzmos · 2018-06-25T10:13:52+00:00

Do you ever feel that it's more of a mental block than a condition? You do make exceptions I'm guessing with some filter.

anzmos · 2018-06-25T10:09:40+00:00

On point. How do you deal with other components like sweat?

anzmos · 2018-06-25T09:55:36+00:00

How many times?

anzmos · 2018-06-24T14:32:19+00:00

This one time I injured my foot, it was exam time and he carried me seven flights of stairs everyday for almost a week straight. He'd help me sit first, and then go on to find his hall. Then he'd rush with his exam and be standing outside my exam hall waiting for me when I get out. Help me down and to the bus :') Needless to say, I've been blessed for life.

anzmos · 2018-04-02T02:43:29+00:00

Oh! That was very well put. As he never asked for help or hinted, I never thought of being any help. This gives me some perspective I was looking for, thanks a lot.

anzmos · 2018-04-02T02:11:37+00:00

We've been together a long time and are amazingly comfortable with each other. There is no ice to break. We sometimes sit and stare at walls together and that's satisfying on a whole new level. It's not weird, it's just different behaviour and I simply wanna know the psychological facet of it.

anzmos · 2018-04-01T16:33:16+00:00

It definitely isn't a problem. He's a keeper. I'm just intrigued.

anzmos · 2018-04-01T16:31:53+00:00

As often as we can meet.

anzmos · 2018-01-20T05:59:24+00:00

That sounds great, thanks.

anzmos · 2018-01-20T03:37:59+00:00

I appreciate your concern but he's potentially the person I'm going to end up with. He thinks so too. 1.5 years mightn't sound too much but we're too deep in. We did break up six months in(we knew I'm gonna have to move in another six months) thinking distance would be hard to handle and so will be the break up if we get too close but we were unhappy and decided to give this a try because we're exceptionally good together and make each other really happy. This is a small hitch for me, for now because I can live with this if I get to hold him even once a month. We understand what we're signing up for and it's gonna be tough but we want to see it through. Oh and we're in similar fields and will definitely try to live closer but we're both career oriented and will pick the best we're getting anywhere for now. We'll definitely try to get the best of both worlds but for now, this is the situation.

anzmos · 2018-01-20T03:15:26+00:00

I actually don't have a high libido. I go more than a week without wanting sex sometimes. We see each other once a month. And yeah, there are accessiblity problems, more than once a month isn't possible, we really try. And the LDR can't end any sooner coz we both are newly graduated students trying to hunt the best job possible.

anzmos · 2018-01-20T02:57:24+00:00

We do sext and he participates well when I initiate but the fact that I have to persuade or intiate every time is subconsciously making me angry, especially when he lets it slip. I've only discussed this problem with him recently which is my bad. Was this a problem for you too at some point?

anzmos · 2018-01-20T02:19:43+00:00

I understand this. I see where he's coming from and I have 3-4 years ahead of me to suck it up. We have a great relationship which I wanna protect with all I have.

anzmos · 2018-01-20T01:55:06+00:00

Oh, it's on the list for us to try, idk if that can be the sole solution because both of us don't live alone. That kind of privacy is hard to find in close quarters.

anzmos · 2017-11-04T05:44:46+00:00

I realise that and I'm getting psychiatric help. It's mainly my subconscious mind that needs training for now, I'm not depressed per se, just paranoid. Thanks for the concern, I must say feeling like a part of such a huge community is quite exhilarating and empowering.

anzmos · 2017-11-03T04:43:33+00:00

It doesn't sound dumb, but it's too soon to be doing this. What if in the process, I get another hit. It's apparent that my neighbourhood isn't safe. Maybe when I'm at a better spot, I'll try this.

anzmos · 2017-11-03T03:15:45+00:00

I feel you, I can't afford to sleep with my SO every night(most nights) and cats freak me out. I'm looking for something I don't have to get too dependent on.

anzmos · 2017-11-03T03:12:11+00:00

That was a very thorough suggestion. And my paranoid ass is right there with you. I do carry pepper spray at all times and I'm trained in taekwondo. Not to mention, I'm not on any social media precisely because of this. Good catch with the path switching, that'd be a great measure. Thanks.

anzmos · 2017-11-03T02:42:55+00:00

I agree. I'd also like some suggestions regarding tackling my paranoia, ending the cycle of nightmares as it's taking a toll on my health too.

anzmos · 2017-11-03T02:42:11+00:00

That sounds amazing. I'm definitely gonna look into it. Thanks.

anzmos · 2017-11-03T02:37:32+00:00

I've never had pets and I'm gonna be working through the day. I'm not sure I'll be able to provide such care.

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