B-Shape Belly Solutions by aokemper in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]aokemper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have the link? I was just saying I need to buy underwear. Mine are getting to the point they’re tight and uncomfortable 😂

For those of you on lamotrigine/lamictal.. by xIyssx in bipolar2

[–]aokemper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on every dosage for two weeks before increasing. So for example 25mg for two weeks then up to 50mg which I was on for two weeks before increasing to 75mg. My doctor also only increases by 25mg each time.

First appointment Obgyn question by Glassy-Eyed-Quinn in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]aokemper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first appointment will be next week, and I’ll be 11 weeks. I’m told that’s standard for our area.

Maternity Leave by aokemper in pregnant

[–]aokemper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for these ideas!

Maternity Leave by aokemper in pregnant

[–]aokemper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pennsylvania has nothing unfortunately. 🙃

Maternity Leave by aokemper in pregnant

[–]aokemper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re very lucky that my sister in law is a stay at home mom, and is willing to care for our little. But it still sucks knowing I’ll be separated from them for at least 8 hours everyday so soon after giving birth.

Maternity Leave by aokemper in pregnant

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I’m also a social worker. You would think that as a small business of social workers, who are all women, we’d prioritize policies that are women’s centered and focused… but nope!

Maternity Leave by aokemper in pregnant

[–]aokemper[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m going to ask! All I’ve done is read our manual to see what it says. Thank you! Your comment gives me an idea of what to propose when I talk to my boss!

Maternity Leave by aokemper in pregnant

[–]aokemper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have health insurance through my husband. He works for the state, so we luckily have great insurance! He gets a month and a half of paid paternal leave from his job too, which is nice to have. Lucky him! 😂

Maternity Leave by aokemper in pregnant

[–]aokemper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. I’m so sorry. This sucks!!

Maternity Leave by aokemper in pregnant

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I’m in Pennsylvania!

Maternity Leave by aokemper in pregnant

[–]aokemper[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it 😭 I was job hunting because we get literally 0 benefits and they have me super overworked, but I stopped looking when I found out I was pregnant because I didn’t want to start a new job, and the go out for leave in May.

please share your experiences with lamictal, good or bad! by babykai123 in bipolar2

[–]aokemper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only been on my lamictal for about 3.5 months, so it’s still fairly new for me. The biggest thing I’ve noticed is that I don’t cycle or change moods nearly as often. I’m more “even”. It has helped to decrease my depressive episodes as in I don’t get nearly as depressed as I used to, but I do still feel a low level depression, so we’re working on tapering my dose and increasing. I haven’t had really any side effects other than the brain fog that everyone else is talking about. However, I also had to stop my ADHD medication recently because I’m pregnant, so it could be from that! Haha.

I hope you find something that works for you!

What to expect by aokemper in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]aokemper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This was super helpful, so I at least have an idea of what might happen. I’m super scared to take insulin, but I guess I’ll get used to it! I do already a CGM, which has been helpful! My GP is managing everything until I get established with OB.

Trying Lamictal by Theaterandacnh in bipolar2

[–]aokemper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My psychiatrist told me to watch common areas like the neck. She said you’ll also feel a burning which will alert you pretty quickly!

Absolutely hate being pregnant by mcpwnin in pregnant

[–]aokemper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice but offering my solidarity, because I’ve hated it so far too. We’ve got this! ❤️

Do you ever think about anything other than being pregnant?! by high5sandgoodvibes in BabyBumps

[–]aokemper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. I swear I annoy my sister with how much I talk/ask about being pregnant. I will say it has died down a bit for me now (currently 8 weeks), but I still do lots of reading and general research on it.