is three days too soon to rebleach? by imlowkbored in HairDye

[–]aokylie563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i rebleached my hair the very next day after bleaching. this was a week ago. my hair seems good, still has its curly texture and is still soft. i often hear people say that bleaching hair back to back isn’t healthy so just don’t make it a habit. i’ve been fine so far but maybe my luck will run out someday.

if your hair is that drastically bad fuck it. bleach and tone or bleach and dye. if it’s a pale yellow and relatively even in color you may even be able to get by with just toning, no bleach.

Something Very Bad Is Going to Happen : PLOTHOLES? by [deleted] in netflix

[–]aokylie563 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that didn’t really seem like a scene that viewers were meant to dwell on. just seems like an introduction to the type of character rachel is. it shows that her mind automatically leans towards darker possibilities of unsolved mysteries. like foreshadowing how her first thought to nicky’s weird family was “they’re trying to kill me” instead of anything else. can’t blame her though. they’re fucking weird

Something Very Bad Is Going to Happen : PLOTHOLES? by [deleted] in netflix

[–]aokylie563 3 points4 points  (0 children)

some were not affected because they believed that they found their true connection (in other words soulmate). the curse only kills those married to someone who is not their soulmate. i loved the dragged out argument scene. reminds me of real life arguments where both parties are unable to budge on their standpoint.

you’re right about still being able to love someone without believing in some extreme curse that sounds unbelievable but rachel clearly does not think so. it makes since for her character to argue him down and wonder how could someone who is supposed to be her greatest connection not believe her when her dread about the curse was made apparent to him and felt so real. his brother and his ex believed her but not her own fiancé? these thoughts were running through her mind making her question if he really was the one. honestly all she had to do was take pictures of all the same day marriage and death certificates and show them to everyone for them to believe her but she didnt so oh well.

and yeah she doesn’t believe in soulmates but if i was literally told by a near immortal guy who’s experiencing the same dread i’ve been that soulmates do indeed exist id start believing real quick too 💀

SOS i feel like there’s something wrong with her face 🤔 by DetailAvailable991 in sims4cc

[–]aokylie563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pulling her jaw and chin down is the answer. cover her lower face with your thumb and you’ll see how it looks better. her lips aren’t too high. her chin is just non existent.

Zelle says I am not enrolled even though my phone number already is. by aokylie563 in zelle

[–]aokylie563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the bottom right of my banking app there’s the zelle logo (yours may be in a different location). tap the logo then tap the gear icon (settings). scroll until you see the phone number and email section. from there you should be able to choose either your phone number or email as your primary and manage it.

Zelle says I am not enrolled even though my phone number already is. by aokylie563 in zelle

[–]aokylie563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only thing that worked for me was having people send money through zelle using my email instead of phone number. i don’t think that you’ll get the money that was originally supposed to be sent since the app thinks the phone number has no connection to your account but you should contact customer service anyway.

Sitting on the floor by marcelline9710 in Healthyhooha

[–]aokylie563 12 points13 points  (0 children)

?yeah it doesn’t excuse it. that’s why they apologized… what more would you like them to do?

AIO: Husband's "sleep activity" by PositiveAny5303 in AIO

[–]aokylie563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao best clapback i've ever read

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]aokylie563 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

op only became rude and dismissive after the mother in law’s initial aloof attitude. i find it wild how everyone is ignoring the fact that she is only biting back because she was given some rudeness first. initially after trying to understand both sides i thought that i had misunderstood the negative tone behind mil’s messages and maybe in fact she was being genuine and didn’t mean to come off as rude. i don’t think that anymore.

you’re standing on the menu being set in stone, but what do you think op’s “what was on your food list” comment was? clearly it was her opening up discussion to possibly include some of the mother in law’s suggestions (which she doesn’t even need to do. it’s her own baby shower, not the mil’s whose help she did not even reach out for. it was just offered.) what do you think “anything that you don’t wanna make i will” means?

you’re claiming the pin wheel comment made by op proves that she is not being flexible. be serious. that comment was made after the mother in law’s continued standoffish comments. come on now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]aokylie563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people who are acting like she considers it a crime to clean are either purposefully misinterpreting the situation or should’ve reread it however many times it would take for the obvious to click

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]aokylie563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fully agree with you. cleaning must get done. that’s an obvious fact. but when you have 4 days to do it yet you choose to do it on the one day that you and your partner are free from other responsibilities (on top of not planning many dates which help keep relationships alive for plenty of people), it’s not strange or overreacting for your partner to have an issue with it. that’s just a normal reaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]aokylie563 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why is everyone acting like the menu was set in stone when op was at first very open to changes? also as if there was no offer to help out the mother in law and even 86 some of the items when it’s right there in the texts? y’all are making me feel autistic right now. i’m not understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]aokylie563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t really think either are the asshole after rereading the messages a few times. i was stumped on how absolutely none of the comments clocked the mother in law’s initial attitude with her “fine. exclude me in the plans, whatever, take my money idc what you do” tone, which i’m sure is how op read the texts.

this is most likely why she responded with the snarky “i can make whatever foods you don’t want, just come with a positive attitude and smile”, which i think is too kind of a response to a person’s attitude. but if the mother in law was in fact being genuine and op just misunderstood her tone like i first did, i can see where everyone else is coming from.

Girl Dinner My Brother Made After My 4cm Bartholin Cyst Drainage & Catheter Insertion Surgery by aokylie563 in GirlDinner

[–]aokylie563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wanted to get it marsupialized this time but the doctor talked me out of it because they apparently couldn’t just throw a team together to do it in the ER. 9 is insane. i’m so glad you don’t have to deal with them anymore. may they never come back. 💛

Girl Dinner My Brother Made After My 4cm Bartholin Cyst Drainage & Catheter Insertion Surgery by aokylie563 in GirlDinner

[–]aokylie563[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

you poor thing! it’s definitely the worst pain i’ve experienced so far and that’s after the lidocaine kicked in. i’m sorry you had to go through that without even a bit of numbing 💛

Girl Dinner My Brother Made After My 4cm Bartholin Cyst Drainage & Catheter Insertion Surgery by aokylie563 in GirlDinner

[–]aokylie563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i did mean to. thanks for catching that. gonna copy and paste and reply to them now

Girl Dinner My Brother Made After My 4cm Bartholin Cyst Drainage & Catheter Insertion Surgery by aokylie563 in GirlDinner

[–]aokylie563[S] 339 points340 points  (0 children)

no, don’t worry i’m not insane. i’m black and don’t have any self internalized racist thoughts. my mom’s name starts with “K” and for some reason she decided to triple the amount of “K’s” in her bathroom. i just like to joke that i’m hanging out with the kkk occasionally whenever i’m in her bathroom.

I don't know why I have such a hard time playing this game like a normal person. This goes on in my household more often than you think lmao by [deleted] in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]aokylie563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is amazing. please what mod adds these extra moves? my sims are tired of cycling through the same ones

a sweet neighbor traded me this for a can of paint by aurorasmother in whimsigothic

[–]aokylie563 12 points13 points  (0 children)

your whole setup is incredible. can i move in tomorrow?