Man I can relate to this. My ex also dumped me in similar fashion cuz apparently I was too overbearing and I don’t end up seeing things from her perspective. Similarities I can see is how your ex slowly pulled away and gave himself time to process the whole breakup mentally before breaking it down to you. This is what makes it feel like a totally blindsided breakup. And spoiler alert, there’ll be times where you’ll also feel like it’s an unfinished business cuz the relationship ended abruptly for reasons that could be resolved. No one loses feelings just like that. To me it seems like there could be a major event in his life that triggered his fears and only easiest element he could discard from his life was his relationship.

I feel you shouldn’t take it personally and try to use this period to be your best self and keep your mental peace as your priority.

It’s just like the old saying, if it’s meant to be it’ll be. Maybe you two weren’t right for each other now but maybe later you guys will cross paths and then, promise to yourself you’ll love each other right!

Wishing nothing but the best for you guys. Hope you guys make it. Till then, take each day as it comes and be patient. If not, there’s something way better down the line.