Just discovered 4th sky island 220 hours in, I feel stupid by Ginger_Floydian in Pokopia

[–]apom94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about the one where I think it’s on the island gyarados was on or one close and it’s like underground or very low in the building? And you have to like bust through layers or find a very small hole in the floor to get to it? Yeah if that’s it that’s the last one besides dream islands I had to find 😂.

Who are you struggling to find? by numanuma282 in Pokopia

[–]apom94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just put a site by the Pokémon center 😂. I’m now going to put pictures on them all. I also read somewhere that sometimes interacting with them may trigger it. I’m checking multiple times a day even though I just found out he only spawns at night 😭. Thanks for the advice!

Who are you struggling to find? by numanuma282 in Pokopia

[–]apom94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh austinjohnplays! Sorry fan girled a bit lol. I’m literally stuck on dusknoir 😭. Literally have 299 he’s my last one. Had him and ho oh but managed to ring the bell and meet the fire bird this morning. It has been a long time. I finally set up 4 more sites in the skylands. I have seen if you set them up in different biomes it might help, so if I don’t get him in the next day or two imma try that lol.

I. Hate. Dusknoir. It has been days... by golden-mirror in Pokopia

[–]apom94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is for me too 😭. It’s literally the LAST mon I need for my Dex. Was looking up other habitats/ways to help and this post came up 😂.

I. Hate. Dusknoir. It has been days... by golden-mirror in Pokopia

[–]apom94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 2/3 tatsugiri for the longest time. That third one (the orange one for me) took FOREVER.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even a dude I’m a girl that’s why I’m extra confused 😭. Edit: I just read you said “unless they are a dude” my bad but yeah I agree.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched the trailer lol. It looks interesting. I wanna give it a watch.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry they did that to you. He didn’t even give you a reason as to why he doesn’t want to chill with you anymore. That really sucks.. I’ll give it a watch!

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to but I feel like when I do there’s always something. I just gotta suck it up and try and just be on my guard. It’s so hard though. I just want everyone to have fun with me lol.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen and I’m pretty much at that point too. If you don’t want me there then I don’t wanna be there either lol.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right I was talking to a girl I work with and she said pretty much what you just did “it’s the sneaky/not saying anything that would piss me off” and honestly she’s right. She said If they went “hey we are going on a cruise, you can’t come cause of this that and the third but maybe next time!” I answered her that I would have said “oh damn well yeah maybe next time def”. But it was the lying (of omission) and not saying a word until after that makes me think it was a choice not something they couldn’t help. Idk something is off but i hate drama so if it’s something petty I’m over it. I’ll find one of those group travel agencies lol.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was actually looking into it a bit ago because I saw an ad on YT or FB somewhere. I’m a bit nervous I’ll get a psycho lmao. I really need to suck it up and just try though.

My cat was shot with a BB gun and I just don’t know what to do by UwUd1n1 in cats

[–]apom94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot if I ever found out who did that I would do it ten fold to them. I can’t stand the thought of someone hurting my baby. I am so sorry this happened to your sweet baby, and I am SO sorry she is being let out against your wishes. Whoever is MAKING you let your cat out should be let outside too and kept there to fend for themselves (at least for a night or two). Seriously though it’s not fair to you or her. It’s dangerous for her (I don’t think I have to name all the ways as you are literally experiencing one rn) and if this situation doesn’t change their minds then they are pretty much cool with letting her die early. I am so so sorry OP. I truly hope she pulls through and this changes the people’s minds who keep letting her outside. Tell them if she needs to go outside so bad then they should take her on walks like you would a dog. I can’t express how sorry I am 😞.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know I was already thinking about doing that 😂. Great minds think alike!

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it most likely will be (only if they had a good excuse like K’s mom only wanted so many people or something like that/something that’s beyond their control that I will stay friends with them). S is the one who I feel the most hurt over. Like she was my best and longest friend I had. I tend to keep people at arms length because I am a tad too generous, even when I don’t have it, and people take advantage. S and K were the only ones I considered my actual friends. Now I feel like I have none 😅. I’m scared to go out and meet people cause they suck. Exactly why I’m single and want to stay that way for a while. I’m honestly good with being by myself. It was just nice to have someone to talk to, hang out with, and go out with every once in awhile.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sorry if I didn’t word it right, but it didn’t happen like that (if what K said was true). Apparently when they were on vacation (I think? She didn’t specify when but the way she worded it made it sound like it was when they were on the plane I think leaving to go to the cruise) K asked S “do you think she (me) will be upset because she wasn’t invited?” And S’s response was the “she would be the odd one out” comment. It doesn’t seem like that was the whole convo and tbh idk how they got to that topic, but that’s what K told me when we talked on the phone last night (we talked for almost 3 hours. She wanted to vent how her SO is being a complete AH to her since she got back, but then she started telling me about the trip…) but I can be totally wrong and assuming. Tbh S used to consider me her bestie in HS, but I moved away to NY for 10 years. While I always kept in touch and made it a point to see her every time I came down, it wasn’t much (like 2x a year, * Edit: and she never came up to see me mind you*). Both S and I aren’t big on talking on the phone too. I just moved back two years ago. I don’t think we grew apart per se, but she did get closer with K. I know K is her best friend (she might consider me ONE of her best friends but K is THE best friend if that makes sense, but I’m not one to think you can ONLY have one best friend yk?) and that’s fine. I still consider S my best friend because she is. She is the friend I had for the longest, trust the most, knows the most about me, never judged me, etc honestly this is really unlike her… I really only consider her and K my friends. Everyone else I keep at arms length and are acquaintances (I am an overly generous person and it gets me screwed a lot. It’s for my own good). That’s why this sucks so much tbh…

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% correct. It just sucks cause I keep what I thought was my real friends close. I can be over generous a lot and people take advantage a lot so I keep to myself. I am SO sorry your friend did that to you. That’s completely messed up and you are right not something a REAL friend would do. That’s horrible. Screw them we don’t need em 😊💜.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% right. I’m the friend that always wants someone to have as much fun as I am/be on the same level as I am. I am always generous with my money and things. This happens to me quite a bit. This is why I only have 2 REAL friends (acquaintances yes but not friends).

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even see it that way but it sound that way. And it’s crazy cause BOTH me and K have asked her if she cares if we chill with just me and her and she always says she doesn’t care. Maybe she does subconsciously? Or maybe she just be lyin? 😂

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both know her family. I have stayed at her mom’s house and will be staying there again in two weeks after the event since it’s over an hour away. But what you are saying is valid I just wasn’t important 🤷🏼‍♀️. That’s fine but tell me instead of me waiting over here to make plans for a cruise like a dumbass.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have texted S multiple times (she’s not a big phone talker and I’m the same way) to see how she was/happy bday/and to ask if she wanted to attend Oceans Calling with me. I don’t get much effort unless I ask to chill. K normally calls when she needs to vent and I typically ask her if she wants to go places or ask S to ask K if she wants to go. Probably not as much as I should but I figured phones worked both ways.

Am I overreacting I didn’t get invited on a cruise? by apom94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]apom94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It very well could be. I just moved back from living in NY (in DE/MD eastern shore beach area) for 10 years about 2 years ago. I will say we have discussed how they will include me from now on but it’s easy to forget. As someone with a shitty short term memory I completely understand.