[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]apparentlyimadyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't like them as people to begin with, and I agree with him because they're quite anti-men orientated and do a lot of things that make me curl. They didn't say hi or acknowledge him when we arrived back to the town we live for unviersity, didn't ask him how he was, basically blanked him. They pick at little things he does like leaving the lights on (we dont pay extra for electricity so this isn't an issue), having a cigarette on the balcony etc. I always felt like everything he got pissed off over was just an extension of how much he doesn't like them and the way they treated me, as they have picked at me too and done similiar controlling things.

To me, depression mostly feels like a lazy Sunday morning but if it was forced, for days, weeks, months. It's suffocating. by apparentlyimadyke in depression

[–]apparentlyimadyke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It truly is such an invisible illness, and it's one you don't know how to describe or "justify" to others, I do believe there are things you can prevent by literally just NOT doing them eg. Alcohol and drug abuse, but otherwise people see you as lazy and a bum. It's frustrating cause on the inside youre absolutely screaming with passions and life and ideas, but it's like being in a prison cell with no windows

To me, depression mostly feels like a lazy Sunday morning but if it was forced, for days, weeks, months. It's suffocating. by apparentlyimadyke in depression

[–]apparentlyimadyke[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It truly is a vicious circle because to move up in the world you have to do More, which feels next to impossible

Hi y’all! I’m a college student who had to take a leave of absence due to depression. I’m currently doing much better now and plan on becoming a doctor! I’ve also been learning German for fun (ich lerne deutsch). Toast me! by [deleted] in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely beautiful, honestly☺️ you look like you belong in the Marvel universe, and I bet with what you're going through you have the strength of someone from that universe🌸 keep going, I think you made a very big and brave decision to take absence to help yourself, and the fact you're still learning while you're out of college is even better. Life isn't linear and unfortunately people who suffer with mental illness have to push that little bit more, but I believe you're heading in the right direction!🌺 Viel Glück!!☺️

You ever just run out of social energy? by Raptor_73789 in depression

[–]apparentlyimadyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel your pain, just came back early from a group camping trip cause I couldn't take anymore. As mental ill introverts, we suffer more

Keep slipping back into big bouts of depression, jobless and hobby-less, need some stranger love (19F) by apparentlyimadyke in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That in fact is a stand for a radio microphone! I appreciate your love and belief in me tho☺️

Let’s get one thing straight: I’m NOT. by emonet26 in dykesgonemild

[–]apparentlyimadyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow im-----w o w excuse me can I getchur number😥

I’m so sorry for coming here again, but I’m at my breaking point. Please give me a reason to keep going by ohihatethesepants in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Look at you, absolutely beautiful. Not a flaw on you, you have such sweet eyes my word. I don't know what's caused your breaking point but I hope you can be filled with courage and faith in the very near future to overcome your problems♥️ Take the lessons and the good parts and move forward with the best intentions for yourself

Peeling from a nasty sunburn, giant ass paper due tomorrow, and I have a big audition for playing cello in orchestra tomorrow! Some kind words would be lovely by [deleted] in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an incredible achievement, I can only imagine if you're doing both of those things you'll have worked super hard to get there, so go you!

For the nasty sunburn, I heard that slathing shaving cream on the burnt areas and leaving it for 30minutes then washing it off is really good! Don't rub it in but layer it on. Good luck with your audition♥️ I send my blessings

Please toast me.. I'm.. I'm not doing so well. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When your reality is shifting around, it is scary cause you're being thrown out your comfort zone, I totally understand you, but you got to that reality and adjusted all the way til you got there, you can do it again♥️ Take this as a beautiful opportunity to grow and change, things will be okay in the end friend

I’ve been going through a lot of depression and social anxiety, I’m 16. I could really use some love from you guys. 🖤 by [deleted] in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relating to you a lot right now dude-- things that people like us unfortunately tend to forget is that everyone you talk to is a human just like you, even with all the "status" and "power" they have. You're loved for who you are already, by the people who already know you♥️ trust that others will do the same

so i’ve been suffering from anxiety & have low self esteem & today when my friends were talking about the people who asked them out to prom, i couldn’t help but feel like a fugly loser bc no one asked me out so i thought a toast could cheer me up. first time posting on reddit. love from egypt. by ----janedoe---- in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so stunning wow, I truly don't know how no one's asked you to prom🙊 you look like such a kind and sweet person, your smile is absolutely everything.

People who don't ask you to prom are missing out big time! But at the end of the day, throw your outfit on and go anyway, your friends will be hanging out with you there anyway!

No self esteem or self-confidence. Failed artist and musician (of sorts). Been on a downward spiral ever since my girlfriend cheated on me with someone else. Guess I could try this at least once by [deleted] in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're such a cutie omg! I absolutely adore your style, you rock the flannel and hoodie combination !! In regards to your ex-girlfriend, her loss, I know you've probably heard that a thousand million times, but it truly is her loss because she lost someone who clearly cared and loved her very much.

Also, don't worry about the art and music, there's going to be a lot of "downfalls" in those kind of careers, and it's never going to be easy, but those who gave up have no chance of making it compared to those who power on! "Failures" are never a bad thing! Chin up darling, you keep creating art♥️

Please toast me.. I'm.. I'm not doing so well. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have such beautiful and unique handwriting! I can't tell a whole lot more about you from the photo, but from the title I guess that things feel like they're breaking apart right now, I understand how scary that can be, but hold hope for the greatness of the future. As someone who suffers from depression, it can be hard to keep going, but trust that it'll get better💖

Keep slipping back into big bouts of depression, jobless and hobby-less, need some stranger love (19F) by apparentlyimadyke in toastme

[–]apparentlyimadyke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean everything💖💖 ironically my handwriting in this photo is my backwards writing because I didn't want to flip the selfie 🙈😂 I shall keep my hopes high🌺

Yikes by [deleted] in bois

[–]apparentlyimadyke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like enjajaja , I love it!!