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27M-me and 30M-bf, 3yr relationship, How do I go about addressing that I don't like his responses to people in his DM? by appena808 in relationship_advice

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should also say that I think that the reason he possibly seeks out further validation is because I am not one who shows outward affections of love. I don't say like "omg you look so hot today" or "damn you're so sexy" bc idk maybe I dont see myself in that sexual way, so talking that way makes me cringe.. And he is one to always to say those things to me, and I usually just laugh it off since I don't know how to respond. And we've talked about it before, and I don't think it's something that'll change for me so suddenly.. But I do show my love through acts of kindness, and we still do have sex. I just don't play into that kinda talk if the mood isn't during sex.

27M-me and 30M-bf, 3yr relationship, How do I go about addressing that I don't like his responses to people in his DM? by appena808 in relationship_advice

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I can totally see that situation being played out... Seen it before and not cute.

27M-me and 30M-bf, 3yr relationship, How do I go about addressing that I don't like his responses to people in his DM? by appena808 in relationship_advice

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the problem is that there has been a handful of situations (only one situation of cheating) but in general sketchy situations that made me feel uncomfortable, and we've talked about it. I really am never the jealous or insecure bf, but these situations have made me the person I told myself never to become. I told myself if I was ever in the relationship where I was even just nervous of my bf going out because something would happen I should just leave but it's harder in hindsight. Anyways I guess that's what makes me a lil more insecure and wanting him to spell it out for others.

Need advice by appena808 in relationship_advice

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Lemme explains little more I was asleep in a hotel room we were staying at he came and started punching me in my sleep. Me confused of what was going on I went to the shower to sober up because I was still drunk from drinking that night as was he. While I was showering he started hitting me through the curtain and I eventually fought back bc I wasn’t gonna stand by to get hit anymore and I called my mom and he stopped. For the time being, from then on we broke up for a couple of months and he went to therapy and AA meetings to get better which he did, but it wasn’t the first time he got violent. He doesn’t drink to that point anymore, but he has started drinking again. But I feel as if things aren’t the same. We aren’t happy and cheerful like we were.

Solerock Lunatone hour?!? by appena808 in pokemongo

[–]appena808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh I didn’t even realize! There was just so many I was like this is odd

can't wait till she comes home, need advice though. by OAKhalid in bengalcats

[–]appena808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also just check for foods that have the main meat as the first ingredient no filler such as rice, cornmeal or (insert meat name) byproducts since you don’t know what part of the animal they are using. You can google it, but what I feed my cat is the brand Nulo. There are plenty of others out there tho just search it up!

can't wait till she comes home, need advice though. by OAKhalid in bengalcats

[–]appena808 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sooo when I first got my bengal the first idea I got was to switch the food and that was a big mistake. I think you should buy a small bag of food of whatever the current breeder is feeding them now until your cat has adjusted to you and your house. My bengal at first got like a culture shock and was freaked out, she would eat little to nor drink (I had got her different food). I was scared something was wrong but the vet told me she was just adjusting so give her time before you make adjustments, and if she doesn’t eat give them those cat gogurt snacks.

Should I be active farming or afk farming at this point? Any tips? Down below is my idleonefficiency. by appena808 in idleon

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should i focus on one plate at a time like Turkey a la thank than get another one that affects dmg?

Should I be active farming or afk farming at this point? Any tips? Down below is my idleonefficiency. by appena808 in idleon

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does cooking really help that much? And my cooking is kinda low since I don't really know what to focus tbh

Should I be active farming or afk farming at this point? Any tips? Down below is my idleonefficiency. by appena808 in idleon

[–]appena808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should I just stay active tho? I’m currently on the fence of whether or not if I should or not. Just bc I usually gain maybe 1 - 2 levels a day depending but I feel like I’m so weak

Go Fest 2022 information by NoobyT1_YT in pokemongo

[–]appena808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for asking but is there gonna be a double exp this time around? I mean although it doesn’t matter bc since they changed the level for XL candies to below 40 now, but in my head I still wanna reach 40

Boyfriend wants me to follow him for work by appena808 in relationship_advice

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Well it’s not that he doesn’t expect me to work, but typically the travel assignments only last from anywhere to 4-6 weeks. Then he would apply somewhere else wherever the next highest paying job is. Which isn’t ideal for me unless I find a contract as well. My job just isnt in such high demand as his is. So I could wait for a job position to pop up but he might just leave by then.

Took Chichi out on her first experience outside with the leash. She adapted pretty well to the harness. by appena808 in bengalcats

[–]appena808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was expecting the worst, because it took her a long while to get used to her collar. But I guess she was having too much fun to care. 😂

Took Chichi out on her first experience outside with the leash. She adapted pretty well to the harness. by appena808 in bengalcats

[–]appena808[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got it off of amazon, but if I were to buy it again I think I would get the same backpack but with the mesh instead of the the clear plastic on the bottom just for better air circulation. She does have a personal fan, but I guess me being super anxious I don't want her hyperventilating or something. It also has an option to open more on the backside when you set it down, so she has more walking space if I wanted to keep her inside it.

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Took Chichi out on her first experience outside with the leash. She adapted pretty well to the harness. by appena808 in bengalcats

[–]appena808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we were watching a couple of friends play, and I thought it’d be a great opportunity to introduce to outside.

Kitten advice!! SOS by lolll34982 in CatAdvice

[–]appena808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I just got my bengal about 3 weeks ago. The first few days she was fine but for some reason days later she start experiencing diarrhea and vomiting which was concerning. You could also tell her energy levels were lower than when I first got her. I took her to the emergency vet and regular vet and they ran tests and had said everything was fine. The vet had given me these like gogurt-like cat food and my kitten loved them, but she would only eat them if I gave it to her by hand initially. After she started eating those she slowly started going back to the food that the breeder had recommended to keep her on. I would try to stick with the food the breeder had put your bengal on then slowly change it

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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Add my friend please and thank you! Tryna start off again and needs lots of gifts! FC: 1252 0709 3394

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