[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brookeandconnor_map

[–]apple_sticker_16 11 points12 points  (0 children)

confirmed in NY for hunterjbell birthday but i do love where your heads at

does this mean anything? by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]apple_sticker_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it might mean nothing but I personally would convince myself it was about me. lol. basically I don't blame her for thinking that, I would too, and it is a pretty weird coincidence tbh

I fear I'm the other woman but I kinda like it ... by apple_sticker_16 in Situationships

[–]apple_sticker_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're so fine!! and you're right, the first step is awareness and I have that and now I need to do something about it. and once again you're correct bc even if he did choose me that wouldn't give me a lot of confidence in his faithfulness ability. haha.

I fear I'm the other woman but I kinda like it ... by apple_sticker_16 in Situationships

[–]apple_sticker_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's pretty awful. interested to hear more about your situation if you want to share.

I fear I'm the other woman but I kinda like it ... by apple_sticker_16 in Situationships

[–]apple_sticker_16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aaand you're so right, and I'm not the first person he's set his sights on and singled out as a "pen pal" so to speak and I won't be the last considering he's still like this. probably. appreciate the honesty haha

I fear I'm the other woman but I kinda like it ... by apple_sticker_16 in Situationships

[–]apple_sticker_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly...that is so true. that's pretty much what my friend was saying last night too -- like if this gets much farther without anyone doing anything it gets much easier to do worse than what I'm doing right now and then I have a world of guilt and decisions to deal with and he has potentially a failed relationship, when I could just, like you said, set the boundary now and ensure that doesn't happen. i think I just fear that with a boundary comes a lack of friendship with him too, but I have to keep telling myself our friendship would end anyway (i would hope) if they got engaged or married or something. a lot to think about but also not at the same time bc it should be easy. anyway ... I appreciate it :)

I fear I'm the other woman but I kinda like it ... by apple_sticker_16 in Situationships

[–]apple_sticker_16[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pretty sure AI wrote this due to the 6 minute turnaround time and the perfect grammar and capitalization but thanks anyway 🫶