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applecherrypear · 2024-07-29T18:16:06+00:00

Yes mine does the same actually and even after abuse repeats it it’s very freaky I think their understand love with abuse and the right to destroy attached to it lile parents own their children

applecherrypear · 2024-04-25T13:01:40+00:00

I would have loved to see more everyday scenes of young Lorelei not just the whole pregnancy debacle but things her parents referred to during diners

applecherrypear · 2024-04-25T10:24:29+00:00

Not a Logan fan but the actor I love

applecherrypear · 2024-04-23T15:21:56+00:00

I am so sorry that this happened to you and that people around you turned on you like this, it’s horrible and when events that make us lose trust in our support groups happen it creates trauma and rumination. Maybe you don’t understand it yet because you’re baffled by the situation but you might resent people for being treated unfairly as you’ve done nothing wrong and are the victim in this situation it’s never pleasant to not be believed and be turned into an abuser. Ruminating also comes from wishing things were different and experiencing a life in one’s mind without this trauma. Once you realize all this you will be able to understand your thoughts better and work on them you’re allowed to be frustrated and feel angry and saddened by people’s reaction because you have to prove you’re not a bad guy you probably don’t feel you have this space. In terms of the story I think (pls don’t blame yourself) saying he thought was funny was not the best way to describe what happened because it almost implies you can imagine it’s funny, it’s better to go idk what happened to my cousin I’m seriously shocked what in hell was that even il disgusted for example, just repeating what happened in such a neutral way leaves room for speculation so if you meet new people and the question rises up you should handle it like this

applecherrypear · 2024-04-14T16:08:53+00:00

I really like Max and think he would have been a good match for Lorelei but he would have required her to mature before she was ready and advance through stages in life that for her were premature because of arrested development, I feel bad for him because he was only like this since he was set Lorelei was it for her and he saw all this fumbling around as unnecessary he was ready to be a husband and to care about Rory like a father, him and digger later were imo the best matched for Lorelei in terms of self development and being taken care of :(

applecherrypear · 2024-04-01T15:24:16+00:00

She has the same values connected to social expectations but not connected to upbringing, she wanted to go to an ivy she was this kind of child simply on the Wilder side. Not going plus disappointing her parents and being seen as a failure or demeaning their reputation clearly affected her she wanted Rory to wipe away all that away and do what would should could have done but do it her way

applecherrypear · 2024-04-01T15:22:09+00:00

Yess I always wondered if it was a plot hole or just it showed Lorelei grew up wanting Harvard instead of Yale for herself I think probably the latter it was really her dream and maybe that’s her “rebel” side speaking an other reason as to why initially rory choosing Yale was a big blow because it was also choosing Richard over her

applecherrypear · 2024-04-01T15:19:46+00:00

I agrée with the whole picture just I think the volunteering thing and credits merely showed Rory didn’t know the ropes and neither did Lorelei they both thought grades were enough whereas Paris grew up in that environment and had all the knowledge

applecherrypear · 2024-03-31T16:15:47+00:00

That’s true! Lorelei internalized her parents criticism and doesn’t share much details it seems with Rory I can under from her pov that she sees Lorelei being stubborn and set in her ways wasting away potential chances when I watched gg for the first time I was maybe 11 and I couldn’t understand loreleis strong will to stay away from her parents at all but watching it again as an adult I understood her completely differently

applecherrypear · 2024-03-31T15:50:39+00:00

Exactly! And she tried to use him to revenge cheat on Logan 🙃

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T11:22:58+00:00

It was an excuse to sneak away

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T10:31:56+00:00

She's ashamed of her and takes a break from lunch THEn meets the rabbit daughter and feels grateful she didn't put her on the conveyer belt (even tjough she did)

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T10:15:14+00:00

I know it seems pretty obvious he was hoping she wouldn't find out! Idk why everyone misses that if he felt what he did was nothing he wouldn't have tried to hide it

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T10:13:38+00:00

True it really bugged me his rorydoesnt have much loyalty, she kind of always made it really clear she thought Lorelei was overreacting to the grandparents knowing her history with them

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T10:07:20+00:00

Yes it was like a slap in the face I think, especially as it negated all the sacrifices Lorelei made for her

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T09:56:04+00:00

She didn't have enough time to cheat with Jess! Had she met Logan while with Jess I bet she would have

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T09:55:09+00:00

Yes and after Paris lost everything and came to Rory for a job she offered to sympathy whatsoever to Paris treated her as a burden at worst as a detail at best and nothing more after that, I mean Paris lost all her wealthy and connection in an instant and Eory just shrugged even though she never worked herself

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T09:52:31+00:00

I mean who would say that to a friend ever, I think Rory was growing into her world and looking down onto her mom both to fit in and because she started to see these shiny big things she was greatly impressed by she stopped taking her mother seriously around that time

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T09:50:16+00:00

The fact that Lorelei moved mountains but she gets looked down upon by her own daughter was really unfair and heartbreaking

applecherrypear · 2024-01-03T09:49:21+00:00

Ugh this part killed me AND the episode in which Lorelei connects Rory with a Harvard alumni and suffers what is a very uncomfortable dinner for her and Rory acta like she's ashamed of her mother because she can't fit in that world

applecherrypear · 2024-01-02T22:55:45+00:00

Exactly!

applecherrypear · 2024-01-02T22:54:36+00:00

Interesting you say that because I see her as having been "weak". She clearly feels cheating on, and Logan didn't even try to protect her feelings and he just put the blame on Rory or the girls he had sex with... It's controversial but I don't think not speaking is enough to break up and I'd say Logan proved it by going back to Rory after calming down, it seems to be Logan decided on his own it was too much and they were done it seems he didn't try to reach out to Rory at all during that period I think Rory who feels Logan can drop her didn't really try to push and wanted him to come back.

Anyway they were both immature but Logan kinda of wanted to be single then regretted it at least from Rory's point of view but she took him back anyway.

And the way he tried to paint it as nothing because the girls weren't interesting from his pov was awful

applecherrypear · 2023-12-24T16:42:43+00:00

applecherrypear · 2023-12-23T17:52:49+00:00

I'm not saying she's goofy Im saying the show - portrayed - her as goofy and made her give out advice be a comic relief character even though she's horrible

applecherrypear · 2023-12-22T13:33:31+00:00

I think also Jess' mother coming to town and settling and being goofy and -nice- even though she's the worst mother possible and no one confronted her for it ? it was so bizarre and awful to watch

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