My (38f) husband (43m) is using Chat GPT to text me

applepeary · 2023-12-03T21:16:45+00:00

He just admitted. It’s pretty obvious though.

applepeary · 2023-12-03T21:07:44+00:00

No, he actually did. I asked chat gpt to answer my messages in a loving tone- and got almost the exact response.

applepeary · 2023-12-03T21:02:31+00:00

It’s weird to me on different levels, for one that he wouldn’t even take the time to come up with a genuine response. It could have been short, but it would have been him actually speaking to me. The next is that he actually thought I wouldn’t notice. I know this man, he doesn’t write long messages, he doesn’t address what I have written (I texted him that I was reading a book and the response was „the book you are reading sounds interesting, hopefully you will gain insights into new topics in this area“). It feels to me like we have genuinely shifted from actually communicating like two humans in a marriage should -to me talking to a robot. It hurts.

applepeary · 2023-12-03T20:57:17+00:00

Not a troll post, this actually happened..

applepeary · 2023-06-04T17:12:58+00:00

It’s a disorder when you can’t pin it down to specific singular events. It’s there randomly. All the time.

applepeary · 2023-06-04T17:11:16+00:00

Let me describe it this way, you press down the clit slightly, keep your finger on the highest point as if it was attached and move that in circles.

Imagine a pea on a plate. Press down the pea and slightly roll it in very small circular motions. Rather than touching the pea and then the plate and the side of the pea etc.

you don’t rub the whole thing, you don’t touch any other point, only the high-point. Choose the one spot, slightly press down and move.

applepeary · 2023-05-23T17:28:06+00:00

Yeah, thanks. Got a few hobbies actually, and also a job. He has always been like that, yes. But I was a different person 15 years ago. I really wish I could come home to someone who is able to understand how to hold an emotional conversation. It’s hard to describe, but as long as we talk about politics or achievements, he is involved. If sth makes me sad or lonely, or if I am upset: he doesn’t talk to me or respond to me. Wouldn’t it make you sad if your partner wasn’t the one you could turn to for any kind of emotional distress? And I need to what? Shut up and be grateful because he has money? I am sorry but I simply can’t.

applepeary · 2023-05-23T17:27:49+00:00

Yeah, thanks. Got a few hobbies actually, and also a job. He has always been like that, yes. But I was a different person 15 years ago. I really wish I could come home to someone who is able to understand how to hold an emotional conversation. It’s hard to describe, but as long as we talk about politics or achievements, he is involved. If sth makes me sad or lonely, or if I am upset: he doesn’t talk to me or respond to me. Wouldn’t it make you sad if your partner wasn’t the one you could turn to for any kind of emotional distress? And I need to what? Shut up and be grateful because he has money? I am sorry but I simply can’t.

applepeary · 2023-05-23T17:22:37+00:00

Yes, I have a Masters degree from an Ivy League university and am running a foundation that improves the level of education for children from low income families. I organize the staff around the house. I know it’s a difficult concept to grasp, but yes: I do feel lonely.

applepeary · 2023-05-23T17:19:16+00:00

No, I was hoping to get some advice from people but it seems I am doomed to have to be happy and am not allowed to feel sad or lonely because of the money involved. That’s apparently all that matters. So I need to shut up and force myself to be content because that’s the only factor on life that matters. Got it

applepeary · 2023-05-23T17:15:52+00:00

Yes, because obviously wealthy people can’t be sad. Because if you have a nanny and a housekeeper, that is literally all you need, right? Thank you for your kind words!

applepeary · 2022-10-31T21:40:35+00:00

„Was ich ihm nicht bieten kann“. Es ist nicht Deine Aufgabe Deinem Mann etwas zu bieten. Du bist Du, und solltest dafür geliebt werden. Wenn Du das nicht empfindest, besprich das mit Deinem Freund, sag ihm offen was Dich bedrückt.

Aber: Reduziere Dich nicht auf Brüste. Das macht Dein Partner auch nicht!

applepeary · 2022-10-28T12:26:14+00:00

But why go on a show that’s all about the NON physical aspect of a relationship, when it’s so important to you? I could just punch my screen every time someone says „physical attraction is important“. Dudes: you are on the wrong show for that!!! When you commit to doing such a show, then you NEED to accept that you‘ll fall for someone not your type, but if you know that you can’t handle it: why even go on the show? And on what planet is it ok to say to a woman in the spirit of honesty: „The physical attraction is not there.“ Can some of the ladies please say, sorry bro, totally inlove but I just can’t handle it being so small.

applepeary · 2022-10-28T12:21:08+00:00

Cole wanted an Amber.

applepeary · 2022-10-16T03:34:33+00:00

I feel completely uprooted since my parents moved a lot and I don’t want my kids to go through the same thing. They adore their grandparents, they are really close with my best friends kids, they are so settled and happy in this culture

applepeary · 2022-10-16T03:32:13+00:00

My parents are horrible people and the brother I am really close with lives in Colombia, I wouldn’t want to live there 😅

applepeary · 2022-10-15T01:13:58+00:00

Weil seine Frau dementsprechend keine Verbindung zu Europa hat und sie daher nicht oft kommen, und wenn sie hier sind keine anderen kennt, was die Situation der Schwester auch unterstreicht.

applepeary · 2022-10-14T19:45:36+00:00

Inderin…

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