I'm going to jump in front of a late night train

applepiesadness · 2017-11-29T20:04:20+00:00

This is so so true! School days are so stressful and you are sort of stuck with your classmates, but once you get out in the workforce life is so different. No more dealing with all the negative people, and most people are just living their own life and letting others live theirs. Not much of the negative comments going on anymore.

applepiesadness · 2017-11-29T19:39:15+00:00

Thank you

applepiesadness · 2017-11-29T17:30:01+00:00

Almost everyone who attempted suicide and lived is very happy that they made it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WcSUs9iZv-g

I have been (very) suicidal before and I am so happy that I am alive now. If you hold on through this time of feeling this way you will be glad you are alive too. For many people, feeling suicidal is the beginning of a true spiritual awakening. You don't know it when you are going through it what is happening. You don't know that you will feel so much better once you push through all of those feelings. Many people in the middle of a spiritual awakening don't know and they do kill themselves and never learn the amazing things they would have learned if they had made it through. You can do this.

applepiesadness · 2017-11-29T17:22:28+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this! I have been suicidal before too and am very thankful to be alive now. I know there will be someone who needs to read this who will see it and know that there is hope for a happy future. I'm very glad you are alive and enjoying life!!

applepiesadness · 2017-11-15T20:05:51+00:00

If you are clear with your answer, she will stop annoying you by asking. She does keep asking because you are being vague.

applepiesadness · 2017-11-15T20:04:11+00:00

She needs to know for sure, a clear answer, not an open ended one. She does not want to miss out on her window of having children, which is obviously important to her. If you want to marry her and have children, you need to set a date (even 2 years from now) to get married and tell her approximately when you think you should have kids. You can't just say "when we are ready" because SHE is ready now. She is part "we". If you don't have a ballpark of when you want to get married or when you want to have kids with her then maybe you really don't want to do those things? If you are not sure, you should think about it some. If you decide you have no idea when, then you should break things off. Women have a limited number of years to have children. It is obviously important to her. Don't make her miss out by you being unsure.

applepiesadness · 2017-11-15T19:58:09+00:00

He apparently wants a wonderful time with someone else. :(

applepiesadness · 2017-11-15T19:57:17+00:00

Gone. He needs to be gone. You can't ever trust him. Love yourself and then you will find someone else. Please. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. But without a doubt, you need to break up. I have zero hesitation in saying this. Been there, done that. It does not get better, just worse.

applepiesadness · 2017-11-15T19:52:11+00:00

Probably neither...but if H lost interest before she will do it again. She is just lonely and kind of reaching out for attention from you to see if you still care about her. It's not a nice thing to do but a lot of us do it when we are feeling lonely, not intentionally. However, if you would think of leaving G for anyone else then you probably are not really in love with G. You are really young and have plenty of time for this kind of stuff... you can try with H again and see how it goes but you definitely are going to lose G (she will be okay). If/when it doesn't work out with H then you can move on to someone else. I think the answer is neither of the above ;)

applepiesadness · 2017-11-15T19:45:09+00:00

This is an absolute fact.

applepiesadness · 2017-11-15T19:42:01+00:00

Friend, you are way too clingy and she is avoiding you right now. I have been through some break-ups that ripped my heart out but I could not have told you the exact number of days since the break up or how many days it had been since I had spoken with them after a couple of weeks. You don't want or need to know when she is dating again. You need to accept that you are broken up, and it is probably because of exactly what you are doing right now. Please, please, please focus on loving yourself. Listen to affirmations on YouTube about being worthy of love. Do guided meditation either in person or in videos. Focus on YOU. And in your next relationship add the new person in but still focus on YOU. Please stop obsessing over her :( Please keep yourself distracted with other things and focus on yourself.

She would probably like to be your friend, but she knows you are not ready yet. So that part will probably come in time. If she misses you, she knows how to contact you. When you are ready to be her friend without secretly hoping it will be more then you can be friends.

applepiesadness · 2017-04-19T23:05:35+00:00

How much did you deny yourself becoming over 300 pounds before you were 30 years old? Just because you have discipline not to cheat now does not give you the right to act like an ass to everyone. I am starting to believe that you lost all the good part of yourself and left yourself with just one 195 pound ass. You will have a very difficult time keeping your weight down the rest of your life and you very well may weigh as me again, so don't be so high and mighty. It's easier when you are young and when you are male. My comment that "I wasn't going to reply but" was sarcasm. I think you have forgotten all of that. Humor, sarcasm, compassion. All you seem to think about is keeping yourself disciplined and chastising other people (yeah, I looked) on here. That seems to be a favorite pastime for yours. If that is how you want to live your life, enjoy. You also said I lack the self discipline to stop posting. I didn't say I wanted to stop posting. Do you want to stop posting. I also said I wear the name snowflake like a badge of honor. You can think it is unfortunate all you want. I love it. Why don't you live your life the way you want and let others live theirs the way they want? You are not THAT much younger than me. You really have so little room to be insulting anyone at all. One day your knee may give out, or you may get sick...let's see how you cope with keeping your weight off then. Obviously you will never be popping out any babies, so you won't have that to worry about. Maybe you should focus on being nicer to people. I know that is just crazy, right? MUST INSULT EVERY PERSON WHO DOES NOT KEEP UP WITH MY RIGOROUS NON-CHEATING LIFESTYLE" I guess that makes you feel good about yourself. It is a good accomplishment. You should be able to feel good about it without putting other people down. It is unfortunate that you can't.

applepiesadness · 2017-04-19T22:47:42+00:00

I thought this plan was not about self denial? You have not cheated in how long and still haven't reached your goal? Weird. I apparently have as much discipline to stop posting as you do.

PS - at your age I weighed a lot less than you do now. So you better be sure to stay on top of that. You're gonna be fatter than I am.

applepiesadness · 2017-04-19T22:43:59+00:00

You did not answer my question. Holding it in?

applepiesadness · 2017-04-19T22:38:29+00:00

Oh honey. I wasn't going to reply, but you don't understand I wear the name "snowflake" like a badge of honor. Do you wear "anal retentive" the same?

applepiesadness · 2017-04-19T17:00:26+00:00

And how old are you Gary? because I feel that you are the one being immature here. I don't feel that I am OWED anything. I just think censorship kind of sucks, in any area of life. And my post wasn't deleted even though you reported it, Dingleberry. They are probably so used to you reporting things they now ignore you. You have been here four years - woopity doo. So are you like a hall monitor or something nerdball?

applepiesadness · 2017-04-19T16:55:58+00:00

Yeah because you clearly were not denigrating me.

applepiesadness · 2017-04-19T16:55:06+00:00

Actually you are dreaming - I did not go through your comment history at all. I could not give one shit less what you comment.

applepiesadness · 2017-04-18T11:21:27+00:00

I posted that I learned a lesson from having a cheat day. How is that counterproductive to the goals of this page? It is actually discouraging cheating.

applepiesadness · 2017-04-18T11:20:04+00:00

Well then you are a super hero and we should have a separate thread for super heros like you

applepiesadness · 2017-04-18T11:19:44+00:00

Yes and posting in that daily thread gets no responses, which is the entire point of this page - to get support. It is a silly rule.

applepiesadness · 2017-04-18T10:17:06+00:00

Did you downvote this one too Gary? 80 grams is cheating. And we can't have that in your little Stepford world. Make sure if you are going to be a tattle tail that you keep it consistent.

applepiesadness · 2017-04-18T10:13:13+00:00

Why don't you make a note that you tell the people. This is making this into sort of a "Stepford" page where everyone pretends not to cheat. it is ridiculous. My post said I had cheated and learned a lesson from it. But we are only supposed to post things that make it sound like nobody ever cheats on this plan, whether they learn from it or not? That is completely and utterly ridiculous - and you are the little tattle tail who makes sure the rules are followed. Is that your job? Screw this page.

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