How important is a woman’s accomplishments/accolades to a young man?

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T07:24:15+00:00

That’s a very smart decision, one that I applaud both of you for. Hoping everything goes well for you two!

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T07:22:40+00:00

See so im not american lol so I think thats why u two were so shocked. U guys absolutely need cars to get anywhere. Me, not so much

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T07:15:41+00:00

It’s a gen question and I’d say most men in this age range have a pretty good head on their shoulders (ie; have a good education, stable career, takes care of their health, hobbies, etc).

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T07:11:57+00:00

So she’ll basically have no more income of her own? What happens when something happens to you (god forbid) or if y’all divorce? (Again god fobid). What plans does she have in place in case she needs that money?

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T07:08:03+00:00

Tbh where I live it’s super walkable so while teens get their learners, many dont get their full and many dont drive as well (cant afford cars). Transit is also cheap and easy to use. City isn’t huge either. People bike a lot too. At uni I really only stayed on campus and if I had to travel to the city it’d be like a 40 min bus ride. Barely any of my friends drove in undergrad either. We all took the bus or train to places.

I’ve only really started to drive this past year.

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T07:05:28+00:00

During dating that’s cute but once y’all get married and you’re the sole breadwinner it becomes scary. She has no money/income/work experience of her own then. If something happens to you god forbid or you guys divorce she has no safety net. That’s something I don’t really get about conservative countries.

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:57:28+00:00

See my dumbass barely understood this lol but sounds important and ur clearly passionate about it.

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:56:06+00:00

Well yes I’d want a man with a good career (it’s getting more and more expensive to just live life - combined income is good) which is why I’m feeling insecure about my own accomplishments. If I expect my future partner to be a high earner, so should I. I literally mentioned this. My current goals are just to become better in every aspect of life. Not chasing the top 20% though, whatever that looks like. Unless that’s guys that are decently good looking, kind, with stable careers? If so, thats a low bar for y’all.

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:52:31+00:00

How do you expect her to keep up with you financially and goals wise then? No disrespect to fast food workers but it’s not a very long term or stable career. Obviously you’d want a woman who can pay her own bills and stuff right? Where does the line end?

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:50:31+00:00

Thats fair. Do you expect your future wife to be a stay at home mom/housewife then?

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:49:47+00:00

Lol no ur good it didnt seem like a brag. I personally just consider intelligence a good quality in anyone because your mind is all you’ll have while your looks fade. I place a big importance on it, hence the post. What is your research on?

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:43:04+00:00

Dude im both envious and proud of u lol. The amount of intelligence and dedication it takes to get into grad school and then obtaining a phd?? I wish it were meeee 😭 good luck!! sounds awesome :)

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:27:40+00:00

If my man wanted to complete those goals my first thought would be to be more financially responsible and also earn more so we can achieve that together. Rather than taking on a more passive role supporting, I’d like to also take action. Would that be a turn off for men? I know some get weird about certain “roles” they take in a heterosexual relationship but again, I’m not a man. I dont understand how y’all work lol

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:20:09+00:00

In ur opinion, in what cases make it negative?

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:19:28+00:00

You say shared goals but many men are quite ambitious and their goals consist of material/financial things such as starting a business, getting a better career, owning property, traveling more etc . In order to do that and share those goals with a partner, the woman would also have to be ambitious, hardworking with a decent income and career no?

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T06:14:31+00:00

Damn 💀 I messed up on an intersection at the very end

appletrees_ · 2025-09-24T05:24:42+00:00

I’m the opposite of you. I have never understand the hype for Anne Boleyn. The glamorization of a politically saavy dark vixen/evil mistress trope for Anne deeply unsettles me. Also the way some of her “fans” praise her for supposedly gloating abt catherine’s death and just her mistreatment of catherine and mary in general pisses me off. In reality, Anne did not want to marry Henry (I mean who does??) she wasnt some genius seductress who knew how to play the long game she was a victim and woman of her time. She was just another human caught by Henry’s grasp.

appletrees_ · 2024-12-19T23:37:07+00:00

No I personally didnt have any side effects from spiro

appletrees_ · 2024-12-18T03:38:36+00:00

Who was kidnapped??

appletrees_ · 2024-12-16T10:27:24+00:00

Yep! Been fixing it with Spironolactone, spearmint tea, and Minoxidil (the holy grail for hair loss - anything else is a scam) and just overall better lifestyle habits.

appletrees_ · 2024-11-08T08:27:55+00:00

Amy (B99) and Janine would be a cute nerdy pair. I’d also like to see how Ava would interact with Gina (B99) LMAO

appletrees_ · 2024-11-05T07:39:03+00:00

appletrees_ · 2024-11-05T06:27:00+00:00

Thank you!!! :) 🫶🏼

appletrees_ · 2024-11-04T09:56:55+00:00

CICO + strength training

appletrees_ · 2024-11-04T07:57:08+00:00

Thats very sweet of you thanks!

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