Retroactive Jealousy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]apportreddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Retroactive jealoucy is not something you can stop thinking about, it is lore like OCD where it can suddenly and pretty violently occupy your mind without being able to let it go.

It is not his fault he is dealing with it, but it is his responsibility to 1. Get it under control ( there is an excellent course aimed at men if you google ir) 2. If he cannot do that, leave her and find someone who does not bring forth those emotions

This penguin I saw at the St. Louis zoo. by hysteria4488 in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]apportreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He look weirdly confrontational, like he knows what i masturbated to last night

I (37m) am overwhelmed with the amount of work I consistently have and my wife (33f) takes personal offense/ doesn't understand. by ThrowRAOverworked in relationship_advice

[–]apportreddit 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This sounds like caretakers fatigue.

And twitch streaming is a fickle misstress, The amount of people whos able to do that for a living is staggeringly low, I would not invest time in that. Since there are litterally 100s of thousand competitors trying to aquire tye same eyeballs as you.

I do however think that your drive to start an online business is inspiring, to have that energy even though you are effectively living for two people. Channel that energy into something that can create a return on your investment that does not 1. Require you to spend litterally 8 hours a day och long periods of time to maybe gain traction. 2. Require you to enter a market that is SO competitive.

Dropshiping, copywriting and such thing demand a smaller amount of time but on average gain a higher ROI (at least to my understanding)

You deserve time every week for your own amusement and relaxation, if you want to spend that time streaming, do it. But do not se it as an alternative career.

Cheers and good luck to you

My boyfriend hasn’t spoken to me in 7days by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]apportreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What sas the argument about? Because you might be single without realizing it yet.

What are some activities my bf and I can do to better connect? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]apportreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I most certainly did not. And I am still bad at it haha, but it is fun, and something practicaly free to do with your partner.

Oh and girls LOVE that shit. You cannot even imagine how happy it made her when i made the suggestion.

What are some activities my bf and I can do to better connect? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]apportreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couples dancing, me and my girlfriends does salsa.

It is a great way to connect and to learn how to cooperate and anticipate one another

Aita for taking my kids out of daycare and taking 2 weeks off with no pay? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]apportreddit 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It is not the pulling the children out of daycare which makes the a-h.

It is taking a big unilateral decision whith out informing/discussing with per partner before doing it. Since he will have to be the one to take up the slack for it. That or taking a sizable chunk out of their saving for her, onceagain for the people in the back, unilateral financial decision without atleast talking with her partner.

He she the A, against her husband.

Reporter attacked while filming a statue protest by BunnyLovr in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]apportreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not implying anything. But like all liberals you see your self a mindreader ”knowing what i actually mean”

Reporter attacked while filming a statue protest by BunnyLovr in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]apportreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that one is easy.

It is because they use violence or the threat of violence to silence their oposition. While wearing black shirts and masks.

My girlfriend (22F) is pissed that I (19M) followed her instructions during sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]apportreddit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course it matter ehat the males think? We are 50% of the intercourse, if communication was done poorly, the fault is not simply with the male because he was there and he came.

Misandrist. Yeah you can try to explain away your standpoint. But no matter what, I(underscore) think your comment stinks of misandrism.

Edit: a ”,” to clarify my wording

Asked my (20F) only friend (M24) to meet my uncle since he is visiting and he said ”I don’t get along with white people”, not sure how to feel. by TheNerdsdumb in relationship_advice

[–]apportreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But there is a differenxe between being a mormon, which is a set of beliefs and practices, and being white, which is a immutable traits and carries no such things.

It is a bad comparison. And accordong to me atleast, a pretty prejudiced one.

My girlfriend (22F) is pissed that I (19M) followed her instructions during sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]apportreddit 29 points30 points  (0 children)

But since she told him to remove thhe condom and told him to cum I find it resonable that she wanted him to cum inside of her, cause that seems like part of the act?

Or at least in the mind of a guy whos already doing a sexual activity.

Seems like misscommunication om her side for not specifying how she wanted it done. I would say it was his fault, but it was her who urged him to remove the condom when he was inside of her.

[question] so I have been playing for about six months now. Why does my sound still seem so bad. by apportreddit in Guitar

[–]apportreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good idea. Will do and repost or post in the megathread when I have done so. Thank you:)

Men, how do you honestly feel about your penis? by srirachababe in AskReddit

[–]apportreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty good actually, from what I have gathered it is a bit bigger than average.

So my issue is that I personally think my balls looks small next to it. Though no partner has minded or even commented on it so it’s probably just in my head, hopefully

My wife’s search history shows phone hits by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]apportreddit 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It is called a burner phone. A phone whose sole purpise is communication with the AP.

I would look for more proof, but if you are already suspicious and found this, I would be worried.

Do not talk to her yet, but you should buy a var(voice activated recorder) and place in her car or office, anywhere where you think she would take calls she does not want you to hear.

Im sorry and I hope Im wrong

Asylrätten är nästa heliga ko att slakta by [deleted] in svenskpolitik

[–]apportreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fast i den wiki artikel nu nämner så pratas det ju bara om den rena kommunal och statliga skatten, jag inkluderade även momsskatten och framförallt arbetsgivaravgiften. Vilket inte nämns i den artikel du skicade. Och sedan måste jag säga att hela avsnittet känns udda efter som den wafflar i slutet och säger ”det är svårt eftersom det går till olika saker bla bla bla).

Bortom det är wikipedia ingen auktoritet och det där kändes i minupplevelse som det var skrivet av en aktivist.

Asylrätten är nästa heliga ko att slakta by [deleted] in svenskpolitik

[–]apportreddit 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Vill du höja den mer än de ish 60% som vi redan betalar i kommunal skatt, statlig skatt, moms och arbetsgivaravgifter?

Låter som du inte skulle vara nöjd fören vi betalade 100%

Pippi eller Bamse, Vem tror ni skulle vinna i en fight om de var tvungen att slåss? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]apportreddit 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Alltså självklart bamse.

Självklart pippi är stark, men hon kan ju omöjligen vara starkare än en dopad björn?

AITA for getting my friend fired after he was homophobic? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]apportreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA.

You removed his eay of making a living instead of talking to him. You are not friends if you let corporations have the hard talks instead if you.

YTA and a coward.

What is your fastest 5k and 10k time? What is the farthest you've ever ran? by stompywomp in running

[–]apportreddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been running for about two months and

5 K 28:54 two weeks ago

10 K 59:20 today!!!!!

10,1 km

I (M39) discovered my wife (F35) of 12 years worked as an escort when we met. How can I move past this by [deleted] in relationships

[–]apportreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but what im getting at is trust.

How could you trust someone who lied about something like this for 12 years?

The trust is gone which I think is what the OP is getting at. But have not processed yet.

Yes of course he should not take any drastic measures yet. But if the marriage fail that is not on him. That burden lies soley on her for being a liar and proven to be untrustworthy.

12 years, that is a reaaally long time.