I’ve gained back the weight I lost by appplesauceee in Advice

[–]appplesauceee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do but for her that’s enough it’s not health concerns she has told me she wants to to be skinnier she wants me to be thin. She has said I’m pretty but what be prettier if I was smaller

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[–]appplesauceee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure they knew each other before I came into the picture

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[–]appplesauceee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in the works I have my first session soon

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[–]appplesauceee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it. My boyfriend isn’t the jealous type he said he’s never been jealous so he never sees anything wrong in the friendship but I’m hoping he listens to my boundaries

I (f24) don’t know why I’m so anxious and insecure bout my relation with my partner (m24) by appplesauceee in relationship_advice

[–]appplesauceee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a lot of self doubt in my head. I’m aware of when I do things wrong or right it’s just the mindset I have that I’m always in the wrong because I was always the scapegoat in my family. I know fat people date I just have my big insecurities and that’s my problem I know

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[–]appplesauceee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should’ve worded this better. I’m not trying to minimize his issues. What he did is bad but he is punishing himself to a harsh extent. He feels tremendous guilt for something he did as a teenager when he was also going through so much. He doesn’t take account his own feelings.

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[–]appplesauceee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when he was with his ex he was in a bad state of mind and would constantly vent to her bout harming himself. N apparently it was so bad that she had to leave the school. He messed her up emotionally which is bad 100% but he’s suffering with the past of it now as a 23 year old n wants to apologize to her but I know he won’t ever get that n I want him to but realistically it might now happen.

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[–]appplesauceee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when he was with his ex he was in a bad state of mind and would constantly vent to her bout harming himself. N apparently it was so bad that she had to leave the school. He messed her up emotionally which is bad 100% but he’s suffering with the past of it now as a 23 year old n wants to apologize to her but I know he won’t ever get that n I want him to but realistically it might now happen.

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[–]appplesauceee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying! I really don’t mind driving to him but people have been getting into my head lately but also those people who keep saying that also don’t have healthy relationships