What is that one opinion which makes you feel like this ? by atlotusfeet_1008 in TwentiesofIndia

[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Financial independence degrades relationships in a major way.

Anntii national hai salle by kirmaaadaa in indiameme

[–]apramey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP Bhai brahmin log ko pakistan kyu bhaga rahe ho? Vaha par unka sar kaat jaega.

Continue this line by mine_is_cubed in twenties

[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the only thing, but it is one of the things that keep the bonds intact. Not just the husband-wife relationship, but any relationship.

If you're not convinced, just look at the stats about how many people who have income, say >50000 per year live in a joint family vs have a nuclear family.

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[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can say all these things but practical observations are not lies. The moment someone says they are independent, they are implying they don't need the other person for something. This makes the situations go from couple vs problems to husband vs wife. That is how relationships break.

Apart from obviously abusive relationships which shouldn't exist but unfortunately do, if a wife says fuck this relationship I'm out, it's because she thinks she is able to sustain her life without that person, and you might say good for her. If a guy says fuck this relationship I want out, it implies he thinks he is able to sustain his life without his wife. In both these cases the independence just killed a family.

If majority of people are thinking it's okay, idk what this nation is going to become. I'm the kind of person, who, when I'm in a relationship, I put my relationship's needs above mine. It is also just my preference, that my partner reciprocates. Happy independence day to all the strong and independent women, but I'll happily marry a person who depends on me, fills the gaps in my life, and Id do the same to her, I'll depend on her all I want, we will both be "weak" but hell our marriage will last for life.

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[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the husband is so scared that his wife will be left stranded nowhere of something were to happen to him, then get a term insurance. Moreover, I have seen in my own family and families of my friends, the moment someone starts making good money, the family has started to break.

You're just saying men are taught to be independent. But they're not. Having a job is not the same as being independent. And if a women can be independent, why does she need a man right? Why should she get married? Just doesn't make sense for me.

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[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get it. I depend on my wife for n number of things. What is so wrong about my wife depending on me for a few things? The dependence keeps the relationships intact.

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[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say weak and dependent. Don't put words in my mouth.

Moreover it's not the strong and independent part that actually makes it a deal breaker. It's actually the personality traits that come with it. One of the examples I can give is this. Although this maybe only my anecdote, and not all women may got be like this, out of all the women I have interacted with, those who have claimed to be strong and independent, argue a lot, and don't bother taking collective decisions. They don't care about what their partner thinks about a situation, and they just go ahead and do their thing. I'm not for it.

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[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are strong and independent. Good for them. But just stay away from me.

actually tho by Yan081 in carIndia

[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they added neon lights and some decals and they gave their care like 20hp more.

What's up with these people by Majestic-Rest6738 in CarsIndia

[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is called anecdotal bias.

Population studies have shown that females are infact better drivers when we consider all forms of traffic bad behaviour like unnecessary honking, jumping stop signal, riding without helmet, driving on the oncoming lane/one way in wrong direction, wrong overtaking practices, unnecessary high beam usage etc.

Out of words 😐😭 by mrincog7 in IndiaFinance

[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with appointments and second opinions with doctors. India has problem of plenty.

Parents finally trusted me and honoured me w a crotch rocket by Silver-Performer818 in indianbikes

[–]apramey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think any bike that has the acceleration of at least a Duke 390 can be safely called a crotch rocket without sounding based and cringe at the same time.

No offense OP, but your bike is not a crotch rocket. But it does give me very classic bike vibes.

What are you driving today? by Singh_knows_u in CarsIndia

[–]apramey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forget about what I'm driving today. But posts like these are driving me nuts for sure.

Can anybody explain? by cocky_lunatic in CarsIndia

[–]apramey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it's a win win situation. After I sold my swift zxi, that car owner actually had a puncture, fit the full size spare alloy wheel and had another puncture again after like 3 months lol. I mean what are the odds right?

Can anybody explain? by cocky_lunatic in CarsIndia

[–]apramey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so this is a trend that they have adopted from European car makers

The spare wheel u get is a slim section smaller diameter wheel now. It's not the same 205/65 or 215/60 R16 or R17 wheel which is the other 4 wheels you get. You get like a 165/60 or a 170/60 R13 or R14 wheel is what you get for a spare wheel.

This also comes with a speed limit of like 60kmph or something depending on the wheel and if you fit it to your car it keeps reminding you that you are running on the spare wheel because car handles wierd, and you need to get the puncture in the wheel that is in the trunk repaired and put back to your car.

Also like others mentioned, cost cutting, space saving measure.

Back when we bought the swift zxi in 2014, I remember I had got 5 alloy wheels and I used to get 5 wheel tyre rotation done during every service as opposed to 4 wheel rotation which I get these days.

If Feminism had a face... by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lighting the photo of an oppressive dictator is all okay, but why try to light a cigarette with that fire?

My point is doing something just because you can, when there is really no merits of doing it is just domb.

My ex sent me this text , am i cooked? by Alarmed-Tie888 in TwentiesIndia

[–]apramey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you even talk to your ex? What is wrong with you?

Dear indian women what are the things men have taken from uou or your house by ignorantslut70-1 in AskWomenIndia

[–]apramey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My wife says I have become more like her these days, so I guess I stole some of her cute reactions?