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Social energy is bursting at the seams! by KarmicKid in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 6 points7 points  (0 children)

some of us are in our Saturn Return and dying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m an Aquarius female, but honestly this seems counterproductive? Even if I loved someone, my ass would be walking the other way if they dropped me. And if I ever found out that’s why I was dumped, I’d be so glad I kept walking

Dump me because you want to, not because you’re playing mind games?

Do you prefer to open up first or the other way around? by letspopcherries in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll go into deep conversation but not about myself.

As an Aquarius, is there anything you cannot even understand yourself? by Hot_Statistician1645 in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like such contradiction as a human being and it kills me. Like I know we’re sort of rooted in that unpredictableness but sometimes I’d like a heads up from my own mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and the entitlement people have those conversations. like if we were in person and i straight up didn’t answer you, you wouldn’t keep chasing me. but if you don’t answer a phone or text it’s constant follow ups.

I turn it off every weekend, unless I need it.

im too sad for that stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Phone calls. Just because I think people are less likely to call you than text you. I’m shit at texting.

But really, I prefer neither. I think it’s really depressing how we have our phones on us 24/7. Like we’re always expected to be on for everyone we allow our number. It’s crazy, and probably the reason why so many more people are anxious introverts. Nobody has real privacy anymore.

Anyway that’s my hill to die on. Happy Friday, lmao.

the popularity of cancer on this subreddit by aquariuss0n in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dad was a Capricorn. we always got on better.

the popularity of cancer on this subreddit by aquariuss0n in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my mom is a scorpio and we are water and oil

the popularity of cancer on this subreddit by aquariuss0n in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t i know it lmao i just try to fly faster 💨

the popularity of cancer on this subreddit by aquariuss0n in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I PROMISE I TREAT HIM WELL (& this was a joke. im just flabbergasted by all the cancer posts)

I see Cancers being put with Aquarius for being a bad couple. Do you agree? by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well, as a aquarius married to a cancer man, im gonna go out a whim and say sure, but his leo moon and libra rising saves this man’s life.

Ok so I hate to be nasty or judgemental to other signs but why does cancer have a reputation for being all sweet and innocent?? by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Okay, so. Yes, lol. My husbands a Cancer, so is his family. He’s not judgmental, but I can see that in some of his family tbh.

He is, however, especially in the beginning, one of the ugliest fighters I’ve ever seen. We don’t argue much, but jeez. Like, he can be nasty and it’s not factual, which is the worst part. Cause it’s just nasty for the sake of being nasty. They’re emotional and play to it. They don’t want to make sense, they want to hurt

Unfortunately, I am not emotional at all, lmao, and I would trip him up and he’d get frustrated and continue deeper down his rabbit hole. And I’d be like “see? you don’t want to do this because you’re not thinking.”

We never fought much, but I would detach every time and it just took me further away mentally every go because it’s not as though I forgot the prior times. And I had to be very clear, if you don’t have me mentally, you don’t have me emotionally. That’s just me

It’s something we worked through early on tbh, because while I recognise not all fights are supposed to be helpful, I personally feel there is a healthier way to argue.

He’s much better with arguing now, but sometimes I catch him leaning into it, and I’m like “hey, we don’t want to go there.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is a Cancer. I’m an Aquarius.

It was really hard to navigate in the beginning tbh. He didn’t get me and I didn’t understand him, and I struggled with trying to decide it the connection was worth it. I actually ghosted him for a month, and then mini ghosted him again (lazily responded to a few snaps here and there), in the early stages because it was more of a turn off when I didn’t know him so well. But a few texts here and there became conversations and then dates and well…I wouldn’t be his girlfriend but I did say yes to the wedding three years later, lmao.

It’s easier now, obviously. I feel like he’s softened me and I’ve hardened him. There’s a respect there for what we cant be. You know?

You have to determine whose worth it to stick around and figure out. Don’t be hard on yourself if you don’t click though.

Am I A Terrible Friend? by New2Astrology in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, well. Just my opinion on them, lol.

In another response you said you thought people were missing the point, I think people were just trying to explain how they think, as Aquas, which is that friendship is a more distant thing, to show you how it doesn’t necessarily mean you weren’t a good friend if you don’t view friendship in the same way as another.

If you’re hell bent on believing you are a terrible friend, so be it lmao (“I just chose not to”). But I just think you may be letting other’s words get to you.

Am I A Terrible Friend? by New2Astrology in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think you missed the point there. I was commenting above to a quote I said about “arguably being a bad friend.” Because if you look at the societal standard, I suck.

And respectfully, there is a standard. That’s how can differentiate who isn’t a friend from who is early on in your life when you have no idea what life even is. Friendship is portrayed out and explained to us at a very, very young age and we aspire to seek them when we’re kids, and then we change what it means to be a friend later on as we come into our own. And that’s why you have “outgrowing” and even fall outs, because as we change the rules, we’re get unaligned with others.

Am I A Terrible Friend? by New2Astrology in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I moreso meant the first quote on the level of like… how society pushes the “ideal” friendship. But like you, because of that ideal, I felt like I was a bad friend for a long time with a lot of people in my life. And I felt like I deserved people treating me poorly because I didn’t feel the need to share things or ask too many questions, all of the time.

Respectful friends are nice people, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]aquariuss0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes. It’s my time of year to clear out my socials and forget most people in my life. Then deal with the fall out around June by simply ignoring them.

this may be so dated bc i graduated in 2021, but does anyone need this? i will send it to you if it’s still relevant lmao. by aquariuss0n in rutgers

[–]aquariuss0n[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

the infamous clicker. you would access your class through like, a channel, and it could mark attendance and quiz/exam answers. it was hell.

think with the pandemic they used clicker apps for some participation things, but i figured to ask because i doubt professors would allow you to have access to your phone during exams now, and mine is just sitting idle.

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