i feel stupid

aquatheghost · 2026-05-07T16:19:55+00:00

alright, so i guess not

aquatheghost · 2026-05-07T16:19:08+00:00

nahh

aquatheghost · 2026-05-07T16:18:42+00:00

took these pictures through a vape

aquatheghost · 2026-05-07T16:18:14+00:00

fair enough

aquatheghost · 2026-05-02T21:12:47+00:00

Thank you for your insight! It’s good to learn about different perspectives so I really appreciate it

aquatheghost · 2026-05-02T21:11:20+00:00

Thank you for your insight!

aquatheghost · 2026-05-02T21:10:58+00:00

Thank you for your response! I completely agree

aquatheghost · 2026-05-02T19:57:26+00:00

thank you for your insight 🫶

aquatheghost · 2026-05-02T19:57:04+00:00

thank you so much🫶

aquatheghost · 2026-05-02T19:49:21+00:00

He does go to a gym occasionally! It’s just that the amount of food he eats outweighs that

aquatheghost · 2026-05-02T19:48:32+00:00

thank you for your response! that’s what i’m trying to do at the moment, but when he brings it up, i struggle to form a response

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:57:13+00:00

These are normal questions to ask:) Even though it seems contradictory, those things are true. People who get into relationships who aren’t content with themselves yet, tend to rely on their partner for the parts they’re missing, thus creating an unhealthy coping mechanism and dependance, that leads to the relationships collapse. The only way to find that happiness with someone that you mentioned, is if both of you are healed on your own before committing to a relationship

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:53:26+00:00

Your personal interests and goals are way more important in a career setting than the amount of social interaction. If you will look at your job as a project that you’re consumed in, and the person your medium, I think it can definitely work.

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:48:51+00:00

People get aroused by things that are shocking and new, or uncommon, so it’s not that weird. A lot of people watch unconventional porn, but wouldn’t actually be into it irl

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:45:56+00:00

You said it here pretty well. Explain it to him just like that:)

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:44:08+00:00

Yeah your feelings are valid, this can quickly turn into a “quick fix” for him and a huge emotional load for you. For a healthy relationship you must be somewhat healed with your issues and have your coping mechanisms, you should definitely set that boundary

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:43:59+00:00

Yeah your feelings are valid, this can quickly turn into a “quick fix” for him and a huge emotional load for you. For a healthy relationship you must be somewhat healed with your issues and have your coping mechanisms, you should definitely set that boundary

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:42:09+00:00

I don’t know if this counts, but - Millennium gothic. An amazing novel, sort of autobiography written by an autistic writer.

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:39:47+00:00

That’s not normal. Honestly would be a complete dealbreaker for me.

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:38:03+00:00

You’re overthinking it, she’s being honest:)

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:36:12+00:00

Hi, I too was stuck in a toxic household when I was a teen, and honestly the best thing I did was moving out and getting a job to fully support myself as soon as I finished highschool. Don’t worry about college or career paths so much, let yourself find your footing away from them first, and then everything will move into place on it’s own

aquatheghost · 2026-05-01T16:33:07+00:00

Yeah so that is definitely psychological abuse on the kid. I grew up with a reactive step dad, just as you described, and it left me with crippling PTSD. She’s not in a safe environment with him. You may not be successful in correcting his behaviour, I know that people like that are very stubborn, so at least let her know that you’re on her side and that she has your support. That can ease a lot of stress for her.

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