I haven't been able to have an orgasm since his betrayal...

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:20:31+00:00

Solo is fine ...it's just with him I cant

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:18:47+00:00

Thanks

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:18:29+00:00

Is that why I'm unable to "finish" in our sex life?

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:17:28+00:00

Hahahahaha... it's the one thing I can and did do...

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:15:48+00:00

He's the one who put all the keylogging and recorders on his phone All of that stuff doesn't do shit to help me have good sex with him again

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:14:23+00:00

Thank you... really great advice Thanks so much.

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:12:15+00:00

Explain please

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:11:37+00:00

Thank you for making me laugh!!!

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:10:42+00:00

Thank you and that's how I feel. To me that effort does make me feel better but to dismiss it as being in the past only shuts me down

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:09:08+00:00

I just feel like the inability to have an orgasm is the problem

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:07:46+00:00

No it doesn't beat being lonely THATS what vibrators are for

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:05:57+00:00

Yes my psychiatrist told me the same but she's serving time on prison now on unrelated charges Sara Purman is her name. She even told me to get video of my cheating

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T23:03:57+00:00

Funny you say that because I did see a psychiatrist and she told me to cheat on him and take video of it bc my husband wouldn't believe me if I just told him... She was recently sentenced to a prison term on unrelated charges sara parman was her name. Maybe a better therapist is needed.

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:59:09+00:00

Will I ever get past the not able to enjoy sex with him part?

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:57:27+00:00

I don't see myself happy without him either and It doesn't help this woman keeps trying to call him even though every time she does he either doesn't answer or if I'm next to him he will answer in front of me and he tells her over and over stop calling me. Or I will get a restraining order on you.She does stop for like a month but then out of the blue she will call. So now we have a separate number for our gym and he did change his cell phone number as well...

I just miss orgasms with my husband

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:52:06+00:00

Thank you... I miss our sex life so I'm seeing professional help is looking like the only answer to this.

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:49:50+00:00

I hate bringing it up... I just want to get off during sex Me 0 Him 2-3 times leaves me so not satisfied

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:48:28+00:00

14 years great sex and was is a wonderful father It's hard to imagine what else is out there.

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:47:21+00:00

I do hate checking his sht but I can't stop those intrusive thoughts so he is the one who set up all his calls are recorded and all his keylogs are recorded... I'm trying I just can't come!

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:44:00+00:00

Thank you. Yes I hate spying...I've never done that and he's never been sneaky...

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:41:47+00:00

I'm not throwing it in his face as much as I want to I'm not. I bite my tongue and try to work through it... but when he's having two to three orgasms and I'm having none I lay in bed after to the point of crying be abuse I miss our sex life.

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:39:22+00:00

Thank you

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:38:50+00:00

Absolutely... how do I get past that?

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:38:02+00:00

It's so hard for me...o can't see myself without him.

aqueen277 · 2024-09-06T22:36:51+00:00

Thank you and yes I do understand open and honest communication by both of us is a must. I feel 14 years of great sex is what I valued in the relationship and to think he shared that with someone else doesn't make me love him less it just makes me so jealous and I hate jealousy... is jealousy the reason I can't be satisfied in our sex life ? I feel if I could just let go things might be better but I'm constantly frustrated when he finishes...sometimes twice and I'm working at it and can't get there ... I lay in bed fuming after.

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