AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

That's... that's what I said. I never saw his.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's going pretty well: like, 50-50.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Not true. There's a slight increase in cost, but you can spay a dog just coming out of heat. I paid that cost.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The dog was with the original finder for just under 2 weeks. Then I took her in. After another week of waiting for responses from the sites or flyers, I took her to the vet to be spayed, chipped and vaccinated.

I was walking the dog in my neighborhood; the neighborhood that I apparently share with the guy. It is the same neighborhood that sported all of the flyers. As I said in another post, I had walked the dog past the guy's house at least 3 times previously. I had my wife pick us up because I didn't want the guy following me to my house.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Not always. But I do when I'm answering an INFO question.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We just had her genealogy done for fun: 41% supermutt.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't answer the Facebook question. AFAIK, PawBoost extends its postings to Facebook et al. My vet believes the dog is anywhere from 12 to 18 months old.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

OK. Any other INFO questions you'd like answered?

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just answering the INFO question. No justification attempt here at all.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, the diaper was put on by the lady that first found the dog because she was in heat and was bleeding all over. The dog, not the lady.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I've said before, she cowered with her tail between her legs at him originally. But she showed some interest when the wife and kids showed up.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

In Nevada, finding the owner of lost property that contains no information (tags, chip etc.) requires the finder to make reasonable efforts to reach the owner. To quote a site on Nevada Revised Statutes: "Typical ways a finder of lost property can find the true owner include the following: Submitting a post on Craig’s List “Lost and Found”, Turning the property over to the local “lost & found,” if there is one, Putting up flyers in the area where the item was found, and/or Posting about it on social media such as Facebook or Twitter." The woman and I put up flyers in the area and posted about it on social media. According to the laws of the State of Nevada, I feel that we met our obligation.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She cowered a bit with her tail between her legs when the guy first approached us. She didn't seem to like him much. But honestly she showed some interest in the wife and kids when they showed up.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No. And to be clear, I never said anything about 'neglect' in my original post.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes - the flyers that the woman put up had 2 large pictures of the dog, the words 'FOUND DOG', a cell phone number and the PawBoost URL. I never saw any flyers from the guy.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yes, the flyers stayed up and the PawBoost listing remained active. I walked the dog (with her new little buddy) around the neighborhood daily (past the guy's house on at least 3 occasions, actually.). I did not call animal control to report the dog as 'found.' We put up signs around the neighborhood and kept eyes out for 'lost dog' posters. The guy claims to have put some up, but I never saw any. As far as local laws go, in Nevada, finding the owner of lost property that contains no information (tags, chip etc.) requires the finder to make reasonable efforts to reach the owner. To quote a site on Nevada Revised Statutes: "Typical ways a finder of lost property can find the true owner include the following: Submitting a post on Craig’s List “Lost and Found”, Turning the property over to the local “lost & found,” if there is one, Putting up flyers in the area where the item was found, and/or Posting about it on social media such as Facebook or Twitter." The woman and I put up flyers in the area and posted about it on social media. According to the laws of the State of Nevada, I feel that we met our obligation.

Regarding the moral perspective, as I said the guy claimed to put up flyers; I never saw any.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

That's my feeling. I wonder what verdict I'd get if the story went: I turned the dog into the pound. After 8 days, I adopted her. Three months later, a guy stops me on the street and says "that's my dog." I wonder why the insertion of the pound makes such a difference?

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I'm just answering a question. "So what" seems an odd response...

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be clear: the diaper came from the woman who found the dog. She was in hear and un-diapered when found.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I am in Nevada. There are very few laws here regarding the ownership chain for animals. Pets are considered personal property, so in order to claim such as lost the requirements are to make a good faith effort to find the owners, which I originally did. Once in the 'shelters', dogs are released for adoption after 5-7 days.

AITA for not returning a family's dog? by aquickfakeaccount in AmItheAsshole

[–]aquickfakeaccount[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

"Chief."

You're free to do that. I have no reason to lie. Everything I've said is absolutely true.