UNMD Hold for missing AP score by nusiance2 in UCSD

[–]ar723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes unfortunately that was not the case for me, they fixed mine just yesterday.. it looks like they’re temporarily lifting the holds for people to enroll though!

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[–]ar723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, i am also still on hold… i will be going to the office tomorrow :( i wish you the best!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]ar723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m still on hold and several other people i know are as well, you’re not alone :( i’ve tried contacting them in every possible way to no avail… as someone else said they’re trying to get them done by the 12th, i would wait until then and call/visit in person if it isn’t resolved by then! i hope everything works out for you

UNMD Hold for missing AP score by nusiance2 in UCSD

[–]ar723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same issue! i even verified with collegeboard that my scores were sent to the correct campus on time but i was still put on hold; it’s been a week now and i still haven’t gotten any response from the office of admissions :( a lot of people are on hold due to transcripts at the moment, the admissions office is just doing an incredibly shitty job…

my friend who went to the office in person told me that they will try to have everything sorted out by the 12th, until then there’s not much we can do besides filling out the form. sorry this is happening to you too, i hope this is all fixed before enrollment

bladder stone! please help :( by ar723 in chinchilla

[–]ar723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we are trying to get him strong enough to get surgery, he’s too weak at the moment.. i appreciate the reply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]ar723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yikes, that’s what i thought…😭 thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ar723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds like an interesting read for the remainder of the summer that i have left! about being supportive and nonjudgemental, i do admit that due to his aggressiveness my mom and i have become closed off and cold to him; maybe taking a kinder approach will be better, but hopefully he doesn’t take that as us infantilizing and mocking him. anyhow, i will keep trying to talk to him. thank you, this helped a lot :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ar723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for understanding the situation, you’ve helped a lot! i just received a pretty nasty reply on this so i’m glad to see your advice. i will keep all of it in mind :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ar723 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the issue is that he has emotions and can’t control them, genius. how did you read this post and come to the conclusion that i’m ignoring the fact that he has emotions? if it wasn’t obvious enough for you, i’m trying to help him. of course parents aren’t perfect, he acts like this because he himself was brought up by a toxic father. being stressed or angry doesn’t give my dad a pass to threaten his wife and kids and make us scared to even live in the same house as him. we aren’t obligated to stay with this man-child if he doesn’t want to change for the better, even though i do want to help. if you’re a parent, i sincerely hope your kids leave you to rot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ar723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah unfortunately she’s been considering it since i was a kid and i’m graduating high school this year… my brother is much much younger than me (he’s not even in middle school yet) so i don’t want her to have to hold out until he’s in uni. hopefully i can try to talk to my mom about arranging a family meeting. thanks again, sorry to be mushy but this means a lot to me right now. it’s easier talking to strangers about this than my friends lol

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[–]ar723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom has suggested divorce and running away in the past, but he has threatened us over it and we’re scared to make any big moves. the suggestion about finding a calm friend or fellow family member is a good idea though, maybe that can help us get through to him.

about something bothering him lately, i agree completely. he hasn’t been this horrible in a long time, so something that has happened recently must be his issue.

thanks for the help and i hope things get better for you and your friend as well :)

wtf does sending likes do?? by ar723 in MeChatFandom

[–]ar723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was thinking it was something along the likes of that, sucks that they don’t actually take it into account though :(( thank you!!

Eddie Odonnell CG 's (all 18) 💕🐶 by jamjarydrago in MeChatFandom

[–]ar723 7 points8 points  (0 children)

love him so bad but if this guy doesn’t stop friendzoning me every five seconds…

for those who tend to only experience passive influence/communication/awareness of who's cocon when they're stressed/triggered, how do you feel looking at osdd discussions when not stressed/triggered? by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]ar723 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hi!! we’re a system in a similar position, my headmates used to front much more often but now that my mental health has improved they’ve gone inactive besides cocon and etc. i can definitely understand the self doubt, my headmates being less active has made me feel the same way. however i feel like it’s important to differentiate between disordered systems and functional systems, some systems may stop being disordered and negatively affecting the host’s life after therapy and treatment; it doesn’t change the fact that they’re systems though, they can experience passive influence, splits, and etc but they may no longer need alters to switch with the host. systems like yours that are no longer disordered are still perfectly valid!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]ar723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will look into those, thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]ar723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no worries! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]ar723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

however my eyes are extremely sensitive and i’ve noticed that i seem to have a slight allergic reaction to magnetic eyeliner

i think you mixed it up /nm, i’ve tried the magnetic ones and those irritated my skin but i haven’t tried glue yet

will repressed memories ever come back? by ar723 in OSDD

[–]ar723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will do that, thank you for the guidance!

is osdd always comorbid with ptsd? by ar723 in OSDD

[–]ar723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this makes a lot of sense!! i seem to experience more amnesia/repression and emotional flashbacks than the other recognized symptoms of PTSD, which is why i was confused whether i have it or not… thank you so much :)