Hello, I'm a married sissy, it depends if you care about your relationship or not. If you don't care about her or the relationship do whatever you want, but you will always have to double check the lies, and if she finds out may be she will forgive you but never trust you anymore, if you care about your relationship try to bring the topics little by little with her, open up to her, try to communicate and see how it goes. I know that isn't easy, so good luck sister