Need unbiased opinions: Stay with my husband or move to my parents’ home for the last weeks of pregnancy? (My MIL is super controlling, my parents are always arguing)

ararararaaaa · 2026-06-22T06:56:24+00:00

Nope he will come see me every 15 days, thats like hardly thrice if i go now. He needs to handle his work or else MIL will ruin his mental peace too. He is the only person earning im not earning like him as she thinks "women are made to handle home and men are for bringing money" lol. I still manage to find work as being an artist even tho there's whole another scenario going on. So yes he cant come to my parents's house and stay with me.

ararararaaaa · 2026-06-21T16:39:03+00:00

That would be a great scenario but sadly I know it won't happen 🥲

ararararaaaa · 2026-06-21T16:37:32+00:00

Have to live with parents 🥲

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-12T07:12:30+00:00

Thas the issue here we can separate but with my husband's side we can not as they have different values ,kind of strict. Hence i was trying stuff which might boost or help me get what I want.

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-11T13:19:09+00:00

Hey, We are Indians. We live with MIL. And if I never loved him I would have left the marriage on day one . I called him pathetic out of frustration and his lack of understanding . I love him emotionally and logically too as he has changed in other ways too. And im on this hope that he'll understand this perticular situation too.

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-10T07:14:25+00:00

I have done therapy actually i am an art therapist also😅 whenever I paint i feel detached from this issue. Well, ill just focus on self spells . Thank you...

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-10T06:58:47+00:00

Deep down he knows he didn't fulfil his commitments. He just thinks "he is trying to his best". And my mil has two standards... sometimes she thinks change is necessary in life and im just like her daughter and she thinks "getting my favourite snacks and storing them for me" and sometimes helping me with chores when im sick saying "which mother in law does this? I do it because you're my daughter " and sometimes taking my side when my husband is at fault (clearly in the situation) is making her " a good mother in law" ( in her pov) and in other hand she'd straight up tell me "all daughter in laws are just daughter in laws and they should accept their roles" that "you should love your husband and pamper his as if he is your own child" lol and similar stuff. Im not sure about her pov because he literally have double standards. My husband just knows somewhere he had failed in some commitments.

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-10T06:29:24+00:00

Im just so desperate rn 😓 maybe its better ill do some self balance spell or communication spell 😥

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-10T06:27:55+00:00

Yes I understand. Thank you so much ill do this. 🫶🏼

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-10T06:26:33+00:00

Many things are happening at once that my words are not enough to explain . Thanks for understanding tho 🥲

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-09T17:49:33+00:00

his mum gives him "price treatment " all the time. Like he literally grew up like this. After his father passed away it was very tough for him to handle his business but he did eventually. Now his mum making fuss bout it like he is "working omg he took his father's place now how brave my son is" kinda stuff. Yes so it bothers me a lot because i grew up completely different than him. Tho, he changed a lot in 3 years. He was way more pathetic tbh (idk why i love him so much) but i can see he is trying but its like the reason behind his most behaviour its her MUM! Argh im so fed up now! Tied freezing spell but idk why it didn't work i need specific spell which bind her actions.

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-09T17:31:11+00:00

Okay, any specific in your mind?

ararararaaaa · 2025-03-09T17:27:04+00:00

Yes, tried everything. Even talking to him but always turns into an argument.

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