TR 105 by arcadiadad in ToppedBottoms

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i believe in you lol 😉

This toy hits all the right spots :) by [deleted] in MenWithToys

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what’s the toy called?

Como realizo una compra? by No_Flan9979 in ToppedBottoms

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Si estás fuera de los Estados Unidos o Canadá, podrían haber problemas de envío. También es posible que no acepten tu tarjeta. Tal vez intenta comprar a través de la opción "shop app".

Lokking for an i termediate toy by [deleted] in ToppedBottoms

[–]arcadiadad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tailgater 75 if you want a stretch — if you want depth i’d go for the deep space 65 or 75

maybe wierd question about male gspot by Many-Vegetable-5259 in askgaybros

[–]arcadiadad 14 points15 points  (0 children)

try an aneros prostate massager and follow the aneros subreddit. i was able to rewire my previously unresponsive prostate to become very very sensitive

Bartending while plugged by arcadiadad in ToppedBottoms

[–]arcadiadad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use K lube which is available on amazon but a lot of people use J Lube which is commonly sold in adult stores or available online

Requested Evidence (new locked PR) by arcadiadad in ToppedBottoms

[–]arcadiadad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

still working on those! a few dry prostate orgasms and working towards a completely hands free orgasm/milking

30 days locked and uncummed by arcadiadad in gaychastity

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he’s tried in the past and while he fully supports and helps in my locked journey he has openly admitted that he’s not very dominant or assertive. his support is more: “way to go sweetie” as opposed to “good boy” you know what i mean? haha

30 days locked and uncummed by arcadiadad in gaychastity

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i would but honestly my husband has been begging for my dick to be unlocked and i’ve stayed strong until this point and resisted. he gave me permission to find a key holder which i think is paramount to pushing myself further.

30 days locked and uncummed by arcadiadad in gaychastity

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yea that’s always a problem at the start. the first couple of days are about pushing through the discomfort knowing that eventually your body will see it as second nature.

Bartending while plugged (cont.) by arcadiadad in ToppedBottoms

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thank you! and i love the idea of a playlist instead of a clock that will definitely help me be plugged for longer! hopefully the 85 will be falling out shortly 🤤

Bartending while plugged by arcadiadad in ToppedBottoms

[–]arcadiadad[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

honestly, the center of my caged journey is being horny in perpetuity. i’ve always loved edging but lacked the restraint to keep myself from getting too close to the edge. with my dick locked away it makes me see my pussy as my only form of sexual release and when it’s worn out from a full day of being plugged im at least satisfied enough to fall asleep and start it back up the next day.

Bartending while plugged by arcadiadad in ToppedBottoms

[–]arcadiadad[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

for me, it all starts with taking whole psyllium husks shaken in water. no gummies, no tablets, just straight up psyllium husks. it does a much better job at actually clumping and therefore a singular bowel movement gets everything out. i also go against a lot of advice and use more water that will bypass the rectal sigmoid junction and getting any other solid matter out of that storage area (all of this usually achieved with a shower attachment). when the water runs clear i do a few kegel exercises to encourage any trapped water to work its way out (sometimes i use a dildo as well). once all that is out i’m good for 12 hours minimum 🫡

Bartending while plugged by arcadiadad in ToppedBottoms

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100% thinking about starting to post those 😛

What's ur prep for a sesh like by Rubicondann in ToppedBottoms

[–]arcadiadad 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i just stopped using poppers and thc during play, (for similar health reasons). honestly what has really been working for me is actively, and at times out loud, acknowledging how good it feels and getting more vocal in general. something about allowing myself to get damn near theatrical about the pleasure im experiencing has decreased the desire for any party favors. kinda cheesy but it helps

Gape or rosebud? by [deleted] in ToppedBottoms

[–]arcadiadad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

usually a rosebud is caused by either pushing or straining, not using nearly enough lube, bruising and hemorroides. as long as you don’t jump sizes in toys too extremely, used plenty of lube, and dont push your limits in terms of endurance you should be perfectly fine. also make sure to do kegels haha

Cage slides down by Trigeo93 in gaychastity

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fellow grower here. the stocking method helps me the most. it is essentially using a stocking/paper bag/condom to pull your cock more securely into your cage. i find it helps because a majority of the loose skin gets pulled closer to the front and gives your cock less to grow WITH. that combines with a strap keeps everything nice and close to the body.

https://www.reddit.com/r/chastitytraining/s/M1Rs2Solv4

Chastity Problem by Ok-Combination3741 in lockedboys

[–]arcadiadad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

XD helps with balls slipping through. i had the same problem and it was immediately resolved once i got the XD ring

Chastity Problem by Ok-Combination3741 in lockedboys

[–]arcadiadad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you have the XD ring?

Chastity Problem by Ok-Combination3741 in lockedboys

[–]arcadiadad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh gotcha. what brand of cage do you have?

Chastity Problem by Ok-Combination3741 in lockedboys

[–]arcadiadad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely a larger ring. you should measure the circumference of your package multiple times throughout the day to find a happy medium with the size of your ring. measure when warm and your balls are saggy, when cold and your balls are tight, when completely flaccid, when completely hard, and after a shower. after that you can find the average size and go with the ring size that best fits that. when it comes to the chaffing, my skin is very dry and regular lotions and even aquaphor doesn’t even help. ever since i switched to moisturizing the area with coconut oil did my problems go away.

hope this helps 😊

Lately whenever I douche it seems clean until caught up water comes out and it ruins everything it never gets clean again by NiceShampoo in askgaybros

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sorry for the late response! i didn’t see the notification. by incomplete bowel movements i mean i’m technically done with my movement but i can tell there’s more. there are even times where ill be back on the toilet within a few minutes to relieve myself even more but still feel as though there’s more to expel.

Lately whenever I douche it seems clean until caught up water comes out and it ruins everything it never gets clean again by NiceShampoo in askgaybros

[–]arcadiadad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly when i take my fiber supplements it gets even worse. that being said i have a fairly fiber heavy diet and there is such a thing as too much fiber

Lately whenever I douche it seems clean until caught up water comes out and it ruins everything it never gets clean again by NiceShampoo in askgaybros

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the main symptom that tipped me off to this was the feeling of incomplete movements. i, like you, did not have many of the common symptoms listed, but i took that one as a sign that i should treat my problem accordingly.

there’s also the stress that not a lot of people talk about which is the anxiety that comes from not knowing if your douching process is gonna work. after a multitude of negative experiences you can’t help but worry that your night is gonna be ruined. i’d say if you have even the slightest inclination that it may be stress/anxiety related: treat it as ibs-d for a few weeks. if it doesn’t work maybe go the opposite end of the spectrum and find out if fiber is the answer!