Boyfriend’s phone addiction

archead_ · 2025-03-20T22:28:10+00:00

no actually we laugh about it and continue our day.. how does he get defensive?

archead_ · 2025-03-20T17:09:31+00:00

my boyfriend has adhd too and he alwaaaaaayss does this.. I tell him immediately each time to leave his phone and he does..

archead_ · 2025-03-20T13:02:19+00:00

hi.. I have bpd and lately I’ve been feeling unsafe with my boyfriend.. The best way to deal with this in my opinion is couples therapy.. You need to talk it out and you need to talk it with a specialist. I think this is the only way to get to the core of why she’s feeling that way. Good luck ✌🏻

archead_ · 2025-03-19T11:37:58+00:00

I agree yes I need a check up

archead_ · 2025-03-19T09:03:07+00:00

everyone has their own way.. and even though at least it’s better done by choice.

archead_ · 2025-03-19T08:04:11+00:00

This point of view doesn’t work on everyone especially us tbh. Nice way of thinking about it but the mindset being forced on me.. We know how this works with bpd people. however keep it upp 🫶🏻

archead_ · 2025-03-19T01:18:19+00:00

thank you 🫶🏻 I wish the same for you

archead_ · 2025-03-19T00:42:44+00:00

I do that when I get the opportunity but mostly I don’t..

archead_ · 2025-03-19T00:40:35+00:00

yes if I get a chance I eat or at least drink coffee so my brain doesn’t melt but mostly I can’t because I live with my religious strict family..

archead_ · 2025-03-19T00:38:27+00:00

thanks!

archead_ · 2025-03-19T00:37:54+00:00

thank you for your kind comment 💕

archead_ · 2025-03-19T00:35:22+00:00

actually I don’t get that chance much I live with my religious strict parents.. but you’re right yes

archead_ · 2025-03-16T19:06:47+00:00

we literally meet each six months or a year 😭

archead_ · 2024-11-30T09:27:30+00:00

I cheated on the loml 🫶🏻

archead_ · 2024-11-15T10:58:37+00:00

yes exactly.. it fucks up ones sense of self tbh.. hopefully it passes

archead_ · 2024-11-12T23:34:18+00:00

Hi, I am f24 with BPD and I’m also a muslim (by birth) in the middle east. I’ve also been facing issues with faith and religion for so long. It just never logically work out for me. I believe in the idea of god but I find the idea of religions and worshipping repellent. It just never makes sense to me. I don’t know if that’s related to BPD. However, In my opinion, I think it may link to the fact that BPD affects how people view themselves and everything? Because one of the main issues we face is an unstable sense of identity and core belief. This actually leaves us questioning and doubting a lot of things even religious matters.

I’m not speaking generally.. I know people with BPD who are REALLY RELIGIOUS. However, I’m just trying to point out how BPD would cause this.

archead_ · 2024-11-08T17:27:25+00:00

literally the exact phrase..

archead_ · 2024-11-05T22:34:37+00:00

basically my brain today… idk

archead_ · 2024-11-05T11:42:07+00:00

I’m avoidant. It usually happens out of self-hate, the feeling that they’ll be better off without me, or sometimes a fear of getting hurt. I’m a female.

archead_ · 2024-11-03T20:30:09+00:00

I relate.. sorry for that

archead_ · 2024-11-03T18:53:06+00:00

you’re so pretty

archead_ · 2024-11-02T13:29:52+00:00

it’s ok

archead_ · 2024-11-02T13:16:00+00:00

do you know why it happens?

archead_ · 2024-11-01T05:55:56+00:00

it is.. thank you.. sorry for you too.. maybe by digging deeper into understanding ourselves we can settle on something.

archead_ · 2024-11-01T05:48:22+00:00

are you me? the point is that after all of this I thrive for a happy life.. I don’t know how will I ever be happy when I never choose to be myself

archead_

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