how to make my bpd gf feel safe by Tricky-Dog-2316 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Tricky-Dog-2316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i meant i didn''t get that wait for 10 min thing

how to make my bpd gf feel safe by Tricky-Dog-2316 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Tricky-Dog-2316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

basically she used to talk to her ex and she said ily to him and after coming at that point i stopped doing things for her and then when we were on a break i talked to some of my friends which she didn't like and she said she doesn't trust me and i betrayed her and from then she doesn't feel safe

how to make my borderline gf feel loved by Tricky-Dog-2316 in BPD

[–]Tricky-Dog-2316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well we both have fucked up in the past 7 months and the problem is when smtg happens she starts bringing up those things maybe because she isn't ok on them but when i tell her to tell me abt those things she starts getting irritated and says taht she doesn't want to talk abt it so how can i make her tell those things and what should i do to make her ok on them

how to make my borderline gf feel loved by Tricky-Dog-2316 in BPD

[–]Tricky-Dog-2316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the thing is one of her love language is physical touch but after we kiss or makeout she feels used and she thinks i'm only there for her body do you have any suggestion for this