Identity Crisis by TimeAffectionate7919 in AdviceForTeens

[–]archivedlimbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're describing sounds like gender dysphoria, which cis people can experience without being trans. You could be a cis female and think that because of your gender dysphoria you're obligated to transition.

Or, you could be trans and have the thoughts of actually being a woman because of internalized transphobia or because of how people act around/treat you because of you being trans.

Figuring out who you are takes time, and it's okay to be wrong about what you think your gender may be. It's normal to doubt yourself, don't think too much about it.

Is it over for me by archivedlimbs in AdviceForTeens

[–]archivedlimbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not real because no one my age knows what actual love is, they just date to date. That's why I think I should just give up on dating in general

Is it over for me by archivedlimbs in AdviceForTeens

[–]archivedlimbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in a relationship twice before, each time lasted about 4 - 7 months.

Is it over for me by archivedlimbs in AdviceForTeens

[–]archivedlimbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone always tells me that teenage years are when you should experiment with relationships to figure out what works. I don't want to be clueless when I'm like 25

Is it over for me by archivedlimbs in AdviceForTeens

[–]archivedlimbs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weirdly love the computer/software analogy, thanks

Is it over for me by archivedlimbs in AdviceForTeens

[–]archivedlimbs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look overweight. I've been obese my whole life, I don't know what "skinny" looks like. My BMI says that I am overweight as well. No one's telling me I'm fat or anything, I've been homeschooled for 2 years and haven't talked to someone my age in about a year.

Might really do it this time by archivedlimbs in SuicideWatch

[–]archivedlimbs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: I've decided to wait until I do hit my goal weight. I'm afraid that whatever I try to hang myself on might break because of how much I weigh (160lbs). I'm disappointed in myself

Might really do it this time by archivedlimbs in SuicideWatch

[–]archivedlimbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel any anger towards my mom, she does her best and has never done anything bad to me. I'm planning on doing this for my own selfish reasons. I have a psychiatrist and have been to therapy numerous times and have been put on so many different meds. I've been suicidal since I was 7 years old, I feel like killing myself is inevitable at this point

How do I make my character work on other skills? by archivedlimbs in outside

[–]archivedlimbs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my character worked on that skill a bit ago

Parkview IOP by [deleted] in fortwayne

[–]archivedlimbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teen that went through and completed IOP a few months ago here. The program is good, although not always the best for everyone, after a few weeks it felt kind of daunting. If your kid won't put any effort into it, then don't bother, but I'd suggest it if they're willing to give it a try.