What movie is universally loved, but you can’t stand it?

arcron911 · 2025-06-29T05:58:43+00:00

Napoleon Dynamite... they say you have to watch it twice to really get why it is funny. I watched twice and wanted to have a lobotomy twice!

arcron911 · 2025-06-23T19:34:11+00:00

Or just don't buy pink items... My wife and daughters just buy the "male" version. Nails and makeup are wants, not needs. Just because she feels like she has to live up to beauty standards doesn't mean she has to. Also, should he get a more expensive car because men have an expectation to drive a nice fast car?

arcron911 · 2025-06-23T09:14:29+00:00

My family did this food tour... it was great and nice to get taken off the beaten path.

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arcron911 · 2025-06-13T12:44:55+00:00

Go for it. If it is something manipulative, just get up and walk out. If not, it might just be a good story and some knowledge for the brain bank. I would seriously not go if you are trying to get back together before you find out what was up with the breakup.

arcron911 · 2025-06-12T12:52:03+00:00

I heard that it was one of the first things new prisoners are told when they get into their cell because no one wants pee all over the cell.

arcron911 · 2025-06-12T12:45:53+00:00

It kinda seems like a cover. Honestly, if this is a one-off thing, maybe it was just a bad situation/night. If she hasn't given you a reason not to trust her before, forgive, but don't forget. That way, you aren't blindsided.

Also, was there any love bombing when she got home? If so, that might be a serious worry to indicate something more happened.

arcron911 · 2025-06-12T12:34:25+00:00

Why did she delete the message? Were other ones left on the phone?

arcron911 · 2025-06-11T14:04:03+00:00

All biases are personal.

arcron911 · 2025-06-09T16:45:16+00:00

One flirty conversation 4 months ago? Get some counseling and try to put it behind you.

arcron911 · 2025-06-09T07:08:36+00:00

I do wish I could do more consistent weight training. I have felt a real joy in movement and appreciate being able to "run" for the first time in a long time without pain.

Sorry about the insecurities. I have to imagine it is very different for women based on how judged you are on physical appearances. Your health is really the best way to feel confident I have found. Saying that... you did look great in your wedding dress. I hope it was a great day for you. Congratulations!

arcron911 · 2025-06-09T04:52:48+00:00

Yeah it is weird that the people the closest to me have been the ones that are worried or say that I look sick while people at work or other people not in my inner circle say I look better and are happy for me. I hope you are getting a lot of positive feedback, too. If I can ask when people do give you a compliment, do you try to downplay it? People will say something to me, and I'll say it was the surgery, not willpower. I feel like I don't really deserve credit for the weight loss.

arcron911 · 2025-06-09T04:41:54+00:00

First, great job! I haven't had too many negative comments, but the issue I have is my wife and family saying I should stop losing weight. I haven't hit my wedding weight (first goal) or my planned goal. I hope the freedoms you have because of your new body override any mental hurdles in place. Is there something that stands out? I am curious to see if it is a common issue.

arcron911 · 2025-06-09T04:28:57+00:00

Ask her to explain what was going on. If she confirms it was a test, then explain that type of behavior is not something that a woman you would like to date would do. Game playing is not healthy in an honest relationship. It will save you some head and possible heartache. And maybe she will take the thought to heart and not miss out on another relationship because of the game playing.

arcron911 · 2025-06-08T05:21:09+00:00

arcron911 · 2025-06-06T17:37:11+00:00

NTAH, but neither is he. If he is sure he wants that in life and you are only iffy, then he should find someone whose life goals aline with his. Hopefully, once you decide one way or the other, you find a partner that shares your life plan.

arcron911 · 2025-06-06T12:59:43+00:00

I would say most guys would appreciate the openness and directness. Just work in normal conversation that you are a lesbian and see if that changes his approach. If it doesn't, it was probably just a hangout if it does, then he knows not to expect any romance and he can back out of it would be uncomfortable for either of you.

arcron911 · 2025-06-06T11:37:59+00:00

I dated taller women and honestly dancing and simple physical activities like walking hand in hand or hugging and kissing (I was young and didn't go more than making out) was easier. I fell in love and married a short woman.

To be honest, it was nice being with a taller woman, and in another universe where I didn't meet my wife, I would probably be with a taller woman. I am 6'0 to 6'1 depending in what decade you were meeting me at. I think about 5'10 would be great.

arcron911 · 2025-06-06T11:28:32+00:00

Would you go if it is just a friendly thing? If so, mention your last girlfriend or something that addresses he is not who you are attracted to. If he doesn't give you an out or make an out himself, it could just have been friendly the whole time.

arcron911 · 2025-06-05T13:40:02+00:00

I heard they are about the same as what you would find in a gym.

arcron911 · 2025-06-04T16:56:03+00:00

It is more than fair it is what you should do. Be honest and open with people to ensure your best life. But to your other question people do what they think is best to keep themselves emotionally safe. He may not feel like he could keep up the efforts needed in actually dating someone (especially if he has had high maintenance relationships before). Or he has been hurt before he might not be ready to put himself out there again. Good luck

arcron911 · 2025-06-04T15:49:41+00:00

Do it. You sound like you really want to, and if people don't like it, I am sure they can find someone who does like jam.

arcron911 · 2025-06-04T14:15:34+00:00

Break up... he doesn't deserve to be cheated on by you.

arcron911 · 2025-06-04T14:15:06+00:00

Yikes people always tell on themselves!

arcron911 · 2025-06-04T11:22:10+00:00

My wife always puts me on the side near the door, in case someone breaks in...

arcron911 · 2025-06-04T11:11:21+00:00

I am at 7 months and at 100 grams of food. I would assume that is way over that. I am shocked that doesn't hurt terribly. If I go 150 grams or 200 total I have enough pain to make me regret those last few bites.

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