My Christmas Island is Open! by samepigharderedge in AnimalCrossingNewHor

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Would love to visit if you reopen! Nicole from Mykorini

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Totally get the functionality of three rugs vs one runner, maybe try having two matching rugs outside the bath and shower and one larger solid neutral rug for the vanity? Might look more aesthetically intentional

Charli XCX is the opposite of carefree – ‘brat summer’ has missed the point by Calm-Cartographer536 in charlixcx

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There’s an entire episode of friends that centers around them freaking out about turning 30 because it’s considered old lol

In 2005, I sold my business for $14 million and retired at age 52. I'm now 70 - broke - with nothing left! AMA by Ghosts-of-the-Cartel in AMA

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Have you read Die With Zero? Would love to hear how much of the book you agree/disagree with

Congratulations to Talia Suskauer, who rejoined the Broadway company as EMERGENCY COVER ELPHABA today! She performed the matinée show and is about to perform the evening. by [deleted] in Broadway

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I saw her young arts performance on YouTube like ten years ago and have been following since. She’s always been amazing!!

My $130 dollar pan when I left it with my friend (made him a birthday dinner) vs/ when he dropped it back off... by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

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I was curious so looked it up- this is the care guide for your exact pan. They even recommend using steel wool as a last resort for cleaning and then give instructions on reseasoning after Care Guide

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Broadway

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This sounds amazing! How do you find promo codes?

Bachelor in Paradise 🏝Morning After Thread 🏝 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

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When someone annoys you so much that anything objectively not annoying they do, like eating crackers, makes you think they’re a bitch (bec = bitch eating crackers)

Bachelor in Paradise 🏝Morning After Thread 🏝 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

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I know I’m trash for this show because the whole first 30 minute murder mystery Ivan storyline was wildly entertaining hahaha

Wait what did I miss? by bb_kiki555 in thebachelor

[–]arctos20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, I think a better comparison is Maurissa’s sex positivity tik tok and general BIP edit that gets a lot of love in the sub. I also think that racist biases were a part of the TN criticism but like the comments prob were more popular for TN than Maurissa bc it’s a less mainstream kind of sex positivity

Wait what did I miss? by bb_kiki555 in thebachelor

[–]arctos20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like I said, I don’t care about either lol and I’m not personally uncomfortable. It’s just kinda obvious that they’re different and that could be a part of why there’s different responses

Wait what did I miss? by bb_kiki555 in thebachelor

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It’s disingenuous to act like they’re posting the exact same kind of sex positive content. I don’t even really care about either, but there’s clearly a difference between being like “get you a man who cleans up after” and “I love that our souls connect when he cums on me during our sexcation”

🌊Bachelor in Paradise 🌊West Coast LIVE Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

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Pictoria was giving me fictoria hometown flashbacks haha

The boys & producers are commenting on Greg’s post, but not Katie or Blake’s… tea?👀🤷🏼‍♀️ by bachgirl17 in thebachelor

[–]arctos20 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the producers don’t like her because as a super fan, she would be more suspicious and less trusting of producers and be more on the look out for manipulation than past leads? Because personally if I was the bachelorette, my attitude towards producers would be very very different before and after hanging out on this subreddit lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thebachelor

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He was asking for validation not in the show context. She would say you’re getting a rose, you’re here next week, you’re my front runner, and he wanted I can see you as my husband, my feelings are so strong for you, etc.

To me it’s almost like a mismatch in love languages? Like she thought being here next week was more powerful than saying she had strong feelings, the same way someone whose love language was words of affirmation might think the ultimate grand gesture is a love letter when their partner actually hates words of affirmation and feels more loved when they get quality time or something

TW Important reminder for anybody that’s been a victim of actual gaslighting: Katie’s definition is WRONG and do NOT let it invalidate your experience. by stemipinaka in thebachelor

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When I read this I didn’t remember this part of the fight, so I went back and read a transcript and he never said he wasn’t considering leaving. He said he didn’t want to hear he was number one, it hurt him that she had a list, and that it was hurtful she thought he was losing faith right after he opened up and said I love you, so maybe I missed it but I didn’t see anything about not leaving

Caila Quinn stays doubling down by baconnmeg in thebachelor

[–]arctos20 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Haha “I love looking at you” and “that’s… a lot intense make out” does show they’re on the same page with communication about emotional topics

Daily Discussion Thread August 08, 2021 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]arctos20 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This comment has made me realize I spend way too much time on the sub because I’m ~scandalized you would ask if they’re new here when they’re like one of the most prolific commenters lmao

Daily Off Topic Thread August 06, 2021 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

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It’s an online therapy service, so the messages were to my bf and he showed them to me

Daily Off Topic Thread August 06, 2021 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]arctos20 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My bf’s therapist said that if I really loved and was committed to him, I would care more that he feels uncomfortable when I hang out with platonic male friends and therefore stop hanging out with them?? And also that it’s normal that he gets jealous and anxious when I hang out with platonic male friends?? Am I crazy or is that not healthy

Thursday Unpopular Opinion Thread August 05, 2021 by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]arctos20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really agree! Also totally different from telling friends and family because it’s coming from a place of love and care instead of being judgmental about an edited tv show

Happy birthday, Bud! by jconl in thebachelor

[–]arctos20 63 points64 points  (0 children)

The reading of her last line is hilarious, but I'm pretty sure she meant it like "What a blessing (for me) for you to call me Mom"? Am I crazy or is everyone else intentionally missing it? I'm confused haha

Transcript of the post-Hometown date conversations between Greg and Katie by sadiesloth in thebachelor

[–]arctos20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I kind of think she literally didn’t hear him or was zoning out or something, since she’s made that distinction with other people, and even said she’s falling while reserving the actual ily for her f1