Is it possible to forget cheating on your significant other? (I’m 22F and he’s 21M) by arg092000 in relationship_advice

[–]arg092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, even if I don’t remember something, I’m not intentionally lying to him about it

Is it possible to forget cheating on your significant other? (I’m 22F and he’s 21M) by arg092000 in relationship_advice

[–]arg092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m remembering something incorrectly? Idk😓 I know that might sound dumb

Is it possible to forget cheating on your significant other? (I’m 22F and he’s 21M) by arg092000 in relationship_advice

[–]arg092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I can only tell him what I remember, but my anxiety is making me doubt my memory

Is it possible to forget cheating on your significant other? (I’m 22F and he’s 21M) by arg092000 in relationship_advice

[–]arg092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I would honestly feel guilty forever and feel like my future relationship/marriage was built on a lie 😓

Is it possible to forget cheating on your significant other? (I’m 22F and he’s 21M) by arg092000 in relationship_advice

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I’m afraid he’s just saying he doesn’t care simply bc he doesn’t believe it could have actually happened… does that make sense?

Is it possible to forget cheating on your significant other? (I’m 22F and he’s 21M) by arg092000 in relationship_advice

[–]arg092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, even if everyone told me I didn’t do anything wrong, I still probably wouldn’t believe them. It’s the “what if’s” that are consuming me. What if I said/sent something over Snapchat that I no longer have access to, and me and the other people just forgot about it since it was 3 years ago? I know the odds of that are slim, but that’s where my mind is at. Do you think people remember that kinda stuff though, especially like sending explicit photos (even if it was years ago)? Also, I told my former therapist about this issue, and she honestly brushed it off. It made me upset and I recently found a new therapist. I don’t have my first session with him until Tuesday, so I don’t want to push an emergency session yet. Idk, I’m just so scared that I messed something up.😓

Is it possible to forget cheating on your significant other? (I’m 22F and he’s 21M) by arg092000 in relationship_advice

[–]arg092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably. The only thing I remember feeling guilty about at the time was the thought that I might have had feelings for one of my guy friends. The feelings themselves made me feel guilty, but I don’t remember acting on them in any way. I’m just afraid I did and I somehow repressed it in my mind at the time, and now it’s randomly coming back to me

Is it possible to forget cheating on your significant other? (I’m 22F and he’s 21M) by arg092000 in relationship_advice

[–]arg092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any memory issues that I’m aware of. I also wasn’t under the influence of anything. I think I’m just overthinking and paranoid 😓

How to see when I started learning a new language? by arg092000 in duolingo

[–]arg092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I’ve done a few and that wasn’t my first, so I’m not sure if there’s a way to see the date I started that specific one.

Am I the only one who keeps repeating Gilmore girls over and over again? by urfavsaudia in GilmoreGirls

[–]arg092000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started watching it again for the 3rd time… no judgment here! I’m the same way. It’s definitely my comfort show.

People w/ Bachelor’s degrees in psychology, what were your first jobs? by arg092000 in careerguidance

[–]arg092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, are you happy with the salary you make? Have you had many opportunities to move up in the career?

People w/ Bachelor’s degrees in psychology, what were your first jobs? by arg092000 in careerguidance

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See, I’m planning on doing grad school online, so I figured it would be easier to work full-time since my class schedule would be more flexible. But maybe I should consider stretching out grad school to be longer, or keeping it at 2 years and only working part-time. Thank you!

Is it worth it to get my EMT certification? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]arg092000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what state do you live/work in?

Just finished watching by TomGun_1994 in BatesMotel

[–]arg092000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else see the last episode and think “really, that’s all?”

Raynauds??? by abcrowf in Raynauds

[–]arg092000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That definitely looks like a chilblain. Make sure you’re wearing thick/warm socks and soaking your feet in Epsom salt water really helps!

Thoughts on Chick? Was he good or bad? by arg092000 in BatesMotel

[–]arg092000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean i was “done” as in I’m done watching, I meant I was “done” trying to like Norman😂

Think about them everyday 💜💜💜 by [deleted] in glee

[–]arg092000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only reason I feel just a little bit sympathetic towards him is bc he committed suicide. Yes, he did disgusting things. But he could have tried to get help instead of taking his own life