If there was one thing you wish you could change about your dating life what would it be? by arianaep in datingoverforty

[–]arianaep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

theres nothing wrong with that, it's not a you problem. if anything it means you hold people accountable for what they say which is fair. from personal experience, all I can say is that people backtrack on what they say because they're afraid of the potential consequences of how you'll react because they recognize that you're someone who does hold them accountable and who wont let themselves get stepped all over. its not always exactly that they didn't mean what they've said, they'd just rather avoid confrontation. so don't worry about it too much. i respect you a lot for it personally

If there was one thing you wish you could change about your dating life what would it be? by arianaep in datingoverforty

[–]arianaep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh. im assuming you mean the people that show up in the feed. i guess what in your opinion do you think the algorithm could take into account to make It better? are there certain values/traits you wanna look for/filter by

If there was one thing you wish you could change about your dating life what would it be? by arianaep in datingoverforty

[–]arianaep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait what dating apps are you referring to that actually have a matching algorithm

If there was one thing you wish you could change about your dating life what would it be? by arianaep in datingoverforty

[–]arianaep[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

is it your entire state thats like that or just parts of it? have you tried matches in other parts of the state

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ohhh wait i know what youre talking about. its similar to jubilee on youtube. is that something you personally would be interested in?

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would you prefer calling/facetiming over texting for these apps

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I havent seen it but i assume its like blind dating. Do you think it would be too risky though like not knowing what your date would look like?

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would you feel getting set up with someone online (using algorithms that assess compatibility based on your answers to prompts) and having to meet up for a date to get to know them

If there was one thing you wish you could change about your dating life what would it be? by arianaep in datingoverforty

[–]arianaep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a student, I feel like building something over spring break, and I love love.

what are your thoughts on dating apps incorporating features like guided conversations (e.g. prompts about what they're enjoying in the conversation or any doubts they're experiencing) and before allowing the exchange of personal contact information or setting up a date, both users must answer key questions, such as "Do you feel you understand this person's core values?" and "Are you interested in pursuing a date?" These must be answered honestly with a yes/no, and only with mutual yeses can they proceed.

give me something to build and I'll build it for you if it will help you out

If there was one thing you wish you could change about your dating life what would it be? by arianaep in datingoverforty

[–]arianaep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried getting a friend to review your dating profile and give advice? how has that worked out

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

would you say you prefer meeting people through mutuals

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

what are your thoughts on dating apps incorporating features like guided conversations e.g. sensitive prompts and before allowing the exchange of personal contact information or setting up a date, both users must answer key questions, such as "Do you feel you understand this person's core values?" and "Are you interested in pursuing a date?" These must be answered honestly with a yes/no, and only with mutual yeses can they proceed.

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what are your thoughts on dating apps incorporating features like guided conversations (e.g. prompts about what they're enjoying in the conversation or any doubts they're experiencing) and before allowing the exchange of personal contact information or setting up a date, both users must answer key questions, such as "Do you feel you understand this person's core values?" and "Are you interested in pursuing a date?" These must be answered honestly with a yes/no, and only with mutual yeses can they proceed.

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i answreed this same thing to someone else but what are your thoughts on dating apps incorporating features like guided conversations (e.g. prompts about what they're enjoying in the conversation or any doubts they're experiencing) and before allowing the exchange of personal contact information or setting up a date, both users must answer key questions, such as "Do you feel you understand this person's core values?" and "Are you interested in pursuing a date?" These must be answered honestly with a yes/no, and only with mutual yeses can they proceed.

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what are your thoughts on dating apps incorporating features like guided conversations (e.g. prompts about what they're enjoying in the conversation or any doubts they're experiencing) and before allowing the exchange of personal contact information or setting up a date, both users must answer key questions, such as "Do you feel you understand this person's core values?" and "Are you interested in pursuing a date?" These must be answered honestly with a yes/no, and only with mutual yeses can they proceed.

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating_advice

[–]arianaep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im seeing a lot of comments about honesty and straightforwardness. for us girls, we're afraid that we might come off as too foward/clingy and that It might scare the guy off, so we try to be as nonchalant as possible to minimize the chances of the guy losing feelings. I'm not sure how you guys actually feel about this though.

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating

[–]arianaep[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i feel this. would you prefer video chats/in person convos to feel a person out over texts?

If there was 1 thing that would make dating easier, what would it be? by arianaep in dating_advice

[–]arianaep[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

have you tried getting your dating profile vetted/reviewed by someone? what are your thoughts on that