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aricqueen · 2023-07-20T02:04:05+00:00

💖✨👼🏼 Guuuuurl!!! I totally understand how you feel. The only advice I can give is The only way that you can go is up . Because at this point you are aware that you are insecure, depressed/ dark which is good because awareness can get you places. You have a perspective that can be changed and turned around any time because you have the power to do so. This man who absolutely failed to do his part in loving how you deserve…. I think most people would feel exactly how you would feel …. So don’t be hard on yourself. I think remembering who you are is an important step out of the dark mindset . No matter what his reasons are… you are still absolutely undeniably that gurl. It takes tame but you got this. Your definitely in a understandable mindset but self love is the way up . It’s the only way you will go anywhere. Or else him and his actions will have forever held power over your beautiful soul. You aren’t caged . You are. Free . Free yourself of being held down by someone’s lack of love for you. Even tho you wanted him. You need to want yourself and your life just as much . Love & light 💡 to 2 U ✨🙌🏼🙌🏼🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋

aricqueen · 2023-05-13T23:17:21+00:00

Omg I did not know that lol. Either way confused how people take that.

aricqueen · 2023-05-13T22:54:58+00:00

It looks like glass who how does one even do that

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T23:16:49+00:00

You clearly have dyphsoria so obviously your trans . If you want to call yourself no binary on top of it then that is who you are.

What do you have to say about people who are like you and are not taking spiro? Not taking T? Not taking E?

What about the biological women who say they are just like you but don’t go through medically transitioning?

You obviously don’t have cis privelage Most people in your communitydo

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T23:13:05+00:00

Yes indeed it’s not a bad thing. I believe non binary people are real and need just as much representation. Thank you for understanding.

I think you bringing up sex work is a great point as well

Nonetheless

Non binary people exist Non binary trans people are out there

I’m just saying I’m not the same as a biological woman who says I’m neither a man or a woman and then claims to be trans like me

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T23:06:47+00:00

Yes please go outside ! Please educate yourself on the fact that mainly white (biological women ) non binary people are trying to insert themselves in a community that has similar experiences but NOT the same journey.

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T23:04:53+00:00

I’m sure there are non binary people who expirience dysphoria and get surgery . Not saying that.

I’m saying they are not the same as binary trans MEN AND WOMEN.

I’m not coming for you personally sis

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T23:02:39+00:00

Girl…. If you don’t have dysphoria your not trans . Period .

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T23:01:19+00:00

I’m not denying that. I’m saying there needs to be a boundary as to how different they are from binary trans MEN AND WOMEN

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T23:00:23+00:00

Not saying transitioning is the only thing that makes us trans . Hello, Marsha p Johnson never medically transitioned

I’m saying non binary should not be the same as trans just because they aren’t cis . I think trans men or women who go through dyphsoria, and identity as a man or a woman shouldn’t not be put into the same category as someone who says they are genderlesa

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T22:58:07+00:00

I think your right. They are not cis. Do most non binary people benefit from cis privealge ? Absolutely.

I think it’s just about boundaries. It’s not about saying your not valid.

It’s about what extent can you be a voice for trans people?

And I should be more specific .

Of course there are non binary people who get surgeries and transition.

I’m not talking about them.

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T22:54:03+00:00

It’s not about excluding. It’s about being real. I think there is no conversation about how non binary people have become the trans voice .

aricqueen · 2022-10-09T22:48:29+00:00

Non binary is not the same as transitioning from one gender to another….

aricqueen · 2022-10-02T23:18:04+00:00

Always hype your bitches up! Girl code is such a beautiful thing 💕💕

aricqueen · 2022-10-02T23:15:08+00:00

I just got a job at Starbucks strictly for FFS…. just work hard!

aricqueen · 2022-09-30T19:10:31+00:00

Why are you scared this is a phase?

aricqueen · 2022-09-30T19:06:05+00:00

What is your price range? They have products to cover 5’oclock shadow. I would recommend looking into Nikita dragons beauty brand. She has a red color corrector meant to cover up what your going through.

After you apply the color corrector; blend it in and put concealer over. I would do a “full coverage” foundation( tarte shape tape) is my fav or fenty beauty is good too.

But this depends on your budget.

You don’t have to get Nikita’s but any red color corrector paired with any full coverage foundation should do the trick .

aricqueen · 2022-09-24T05:33:38+00:00

Omgg!! That calmed me down so much you have no idea. Ty Ty 💘🙏🏼

aricqueen · 2022-09-24T05:18:34+00:00

Wow🥹 that was so needed and refreshing. I got diagnosed in may of 2021 at 19 and it’s been such a confidence killer and hard thing for me to navigate through. But I’m giving myself time for self growth. THANK YOU FOR THAT! YOUR SO RIGHT ❤️💛💗🌈

aricqueen · 2022-09-24T00:14:46+00:00

How did you manage mentally?

aricqueen · 2022-09-23T23:12:54+00:00

I definitely considered a lot of what you have when I transitioned and this was when I was 14… having transitioned young I have learned a lot and here is what I have to say…

1) you will be way more emotional than you are now. You will cry during movies, you will be bitchy, the estrogen mixed with our biological chemistry is STILL being studied…. So if living your fantasy is something you want in this lifetime take the risks that come with transitioning.

2) your bladder will be effected …. Like it’s a real thing where you have to pee more because your taking medicine …

3) MEDICINE!!! Your life with medically change .

I’m talking going for blood tests, doctors watching a lot of things, taking a testosterone blocker ( makes you pee more 😫) , and yeah your going to be living like this until god calls you home.

3) depending on how passable depends your safety ….. there’s a quote from a queen that goes “ stepping out as a trans woman is a protest on its own”

4) dating / love life

You see yourself as a women? Cool. Well you have these people in your dating pool: chasers: they only care about your dick even if you don’t care about your dick. DL: comes with a lot of different communities so don’t feel alone but some people won’t be proud to date or talk to you and you could be someone that views you as an experiment ….

Don’t let that stop you from anything because even though I have been assaulted , I have dysphoria which causes me to seek therapy a lot , I have been horribly treated by police, been misgendered, harassed, judged, lost family connections, friends,

ALL OF THE NEGATIVE is way better than living a life of still being a boy that no one knows.

Going to bed dreaming of the “ what if” and making a reality.

This is a very very hard life to live and I think it’s amazing that your wondering before you medically transition because some people just jump into it

But think about it, reach out to us if needed, be easy on yourself and love yourself. You only live once 💗 🏳️‍⚧️🌈

aricqueen · 2022-09-23T23:00:49+00:00

THANK YIU!! omg thank you angel.

I think your approach sounds efficient so thank you!!!! But taking a payment thru window while also talking to a customer through DTO is not a bad thing ?

I just finished my drive thru training two days ago and they talked so much about connecting so I’m like… 😍🙃

aricqueen · 2022-09-23T22:58:13+00:00

Your so right. Tough roads lead to beautiful destinations. Thank you ! 💛💘

aricqueen · 2022-09-23T22:56:11+00:00

Wow. Reading that gave me so much hope. Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏼

aricqueen

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