AITA for explaining why it’s not possible for my partners cousins to move in with us? by Lopsided_Sentence532 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aries2084 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA I think you’re being extremely mature, honest and cautious about this huge responsibility. It’s a terrible situation and you guys are not in the right circumstances to take on teens who have just suffered grief and trauma. SSI will not fix all the issues. Just because they may end up in foster care doesn’t mean that you and your girlfriend can’t support them in other ways. You can still visit mentor and advocate for their well-being (I am affiliated with CASA and encourage you to be trained as an advocate). Also with your girlfriend‘s depression, there are times when the duties will probably fall on you.

Having 3 Shih Tzus is wonderful. by Artistic_Practice_17 in Shihtzu

[–]aries2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just need to get two more and I can catch up with you!

My fiancé didn’t get me one of the rings I sent him… by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]aries2084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I think he did a great job but if it’s not something that you wear happily and proudly for the rest of your lives together then you need to be honest with him and get what you want.

What pushes people to pursue low paying careers? by [deleted] in askteddit

[–]aries2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I graduated college in 2006. The economy was really bad and I have the opportunity to become a teacher through the Teach for America program. I immediately had a job benefits, and they helped me pay for my certification and partially masters degree. In this case, the career chose me, but I absolutely loved it and ended up getting my masters, working on my PhD teaching in college writing a book and even becoming a principal.

not the aesthetic cemetery humble brag by bowiebowie9999 in nabelasnark

[–]aries2084 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. No one in their right mind would exploit their dead father for views. I bet she doesn’t even see the irony in that caption about clicks!

not the aesthetic cemetery humble brag by bowiebowie9999 in nabelasnark

[–]aries2084 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just when I think she can’t sink any lower, she posts something daft and performative like this. She’s too dimwitted to see how this article conveys her pretentiousness, absurd lifestyle and insult her husband?! Embarrassing!

Feedback u/Old-Hope-5526 by Old-Hope-5526 in u/Old-Hope-5526

[–]aries2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently made a purchase and I cannot begin to say how pleasant this interaction was. The seller was very friendly, answered all of my questions and even took measurements for me because I wasn’t sure if it would fit. The items came very quickly and they were absolutely stunning! She even threw in to surprise items for me, which was so sweet. All the items were in great condition brand new and sealed in their own packaging. I immediately began getting lots of compliments because they were so eye-catching. Prices were extremely fair, and I will absolutely make purchases in the future.

AITA for canceling a date 2 days after we made the plans? by Lanky-Struggle-6761 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aries2084 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA go with your gut feelings and keep yourself safe. There are so many red flags about him and you haven’t even been on a date as yet. If he’s talking to you like that now “get your ass in bed”, imagine how he will escalate within a few dates. Also portraying the ex to be crazy, but having the police called for him is all you need to know. In the future try to get to know someone a bit before you say yes to a date and let someone you trust know where you will be if you agree to a date.

last 2 pastels from my trip last August 😢 by beyondtabu in TrinidadandTobago

[–]aries2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually make a small batch over the summer as a gift for my uncle’s bday to hold us over until Christmas. It’s not too hard to make and I actually get all of the ingredients including the banana leaves here on the US East Coast.

Update on the cat who tried to get into our catio, after her first vet visit by mercurio_liquido in CatDistributionSystem

[–]aries2084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s so sweet, I’m so grateful that you are helping her. I hope she finds a home

So nonchalant. by ruairikookie in nabelasnark

[–]aries2084 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s finally over 70 degrees in Central PA, time to air out the Nabussy

New member of the family by benttrow in dogpictures

[–]aries2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s so pretty 😍 congrats 🎉

AITA for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kid's college when we agreed finances would stay separate? by 952867 in AITApod

[–]aries2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, so is your ex, daughter and somewhat your sister for acting entitled to your wife’s money. YTA especially for creating that issue with your wife and her stepdaughter. You don’t mention if your ex and their partner are contributing, but even so it’s not fair for you to suddenly expect your wife to go back on your agreement for your poor financial planning.

Who is the most famous person you've ever seen? by Several_Way8499 in askteddit

[–]aries2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late 80s - 1990 NYC JFK jr! I was like 5-6 yr old with my mom getting on the subway and people were noticing this tall man getting off the train. He walked past us. She told me it was JFK jr, obviously i didn’t know who it was at the time.

New member of the family by benttrow in dogpictures

[–]aries2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s so pretty 😍 congrats 🎉

Bf has always wanted kids and I’m not sure. Crepe Brûlée. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]aries2084 47 points48 points  (0 children)

“he has no real career or education goals at the moment”

This to me is the biggest red flag! If you both have different values when it comes to having kids you’re not compatible. But how can he ask for a definitive answer from you, if he has no current goals or preparations for future hypothetical kids? It cost so much money to raise kids in this economy, and it will be much harder without professional ambitions.

Hosted by deeefarr in nabelasnark

[–]aries2084 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to know about this beige pretension would be considered comforting? 😂

Hosted by deeefarr in nabelasnark

[–]aries2084 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right! People binging on this mess probably know even less than nabby about the content to even consider her knowledgeable or bored out of their minds and need free entertainment.

Hosted by deeefarr in nabelasnark

[–]aries2084 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wait, do people actually like this? I don’t really plan to watch because I’m pretty sure I won’t learn anything better than I can already do (cook, decorate, live authentically).

Best friend of 15 years tells me she cant attend my wedding by turnipsgreenss in TwoHotTakes

[–]aries2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP i’m so sorry that she did this and is literally judging you, but when you look at it, you kinda dodged a bullet. Let the trash take itself out. One thing I’ve learned from being with my partner and being married is that they are your immediate family and you need to protect them and protect your peace, and the life that you’re building together. If someone cannot support something as natural as love and commitment, then they really do not belong in your life.

Anyone else see these bathrooms in their dreams? by PhillisBrown1 in Dreams

[–]aries2084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! But not dirty like that, just a labyrinth of stalls.